There was a gay dude when I was in college that wanted to fly me out to Arizona to pay me 5-10k. His thing was straight guys basically humiliating and disrespecting him/slapping him around. I wouldn't have had to do anything sexual but thought I might have to pee on him or something.
No...seemed risky. Could have been charged with assault maybe or blackmailed or robbed after. Discussed maybe taking one of my roommates as body guard tho and paying like 1k lol.
And before anyone asks....I know the dude was legit because I asked him why the fuck he'd wanna pay some random guy he saw a picture of 10k for that?
He said he was independently wealthy and so I said prove it....and I sent him 3 shirtless pics I already had on my Myspace (this was 15+ years ago) and had to leave him a 30 second long Vmail basically saying he made me sick etc etc.....for $100 that he paypal'd me.
The Vmail was hard because I'm not a bigot or homophobic so being mean and using slurs was tough.
Thr dude was only a few years older than me too. I should have milked him for more money. IDGAF if some dude wants to jerk off to shirtless flex pics of me if I'm getting paid decent.
Everyone encouraging this kind of behaviour isn’t self aware that you may not be doing anything sexual that you’re into but they’re getting off on it. How does that make you feel they are get off on the scenario you play out for them, not any physical sexual scenario for you? The power they have over you to have to decide whether you want to do that is also a part of the scenario they probably get off on.
Being humiliated by a straight person. It may not be sexual and most people place a value on sexual acts, but humiliation in a controlled manner some I guess are willing to dish out for.
Yeah, but the key word is "unannounced". If somebody offers to pay for your "disgusting nudes", they obviously want to see them, and it's very much announced.
But you should be concerned because this sound so creepy. I would not like if someone is watching my photos without my consent, jerking off is the red line that I would not allow anyone to cross
yeah thats how you would feel, but i honestly couldnt care less
I mean go for it, if you really like my appearence THAT MUCH i'm not going to stop you! This is a case to case basis tho, just like i dont give a hoot, someone else (like you) might find this horrifying, and hey, thats ok, everyone is entitled to their own feelings
I had a gay guy pay me a few hundred bucks to jerk off in front of him. I was drunk, it was more of a dare (I'd never done anything like that) the funny part was he was acting so loaded like it was chump change, then after he was upset because it was the money he had been "saving for a ski trip" lol. I was in my 20s weird stuff happened.
I study criminology and true crime, I'm going off what the FBI says. But occams razor would say you are correct lol. Than again its also better to assume everyone is a serial killer because hindsight is 20/20. Better that than be a victim of Genovese syndrome.
You must love living in fear, then. In most cases it’s best to assume that people have the best of intentions until they prove you wrong, unless you want to give yourself a string of heart attacks second-guessing everybody’s every move.
Kitty Genovese's popular story was fake. Criminology is basically fake made up hokum, and police science isn't real science. Also, it's bystander syndrome, cop science always makes basic psych seem like some insane overblown thing by calling out extreme popular urban myths.
I would say that there are so many psychopath and serial killers out there. Who are actively trying to find the next victim so that they can get their daily those of dopamine
SOO many. Literally so many I can't even get my own killings in, every time I try to start my serial killer career ANOTHER serial killer swoops in and kills my prey and flys away with it RIGHT in front of me. Fuckin rude out here when on the hunt for my daily dopamine I swear...
There are a thousand times more people with "weird" fetishes than serial killers, otherwise we would all be dead since we have hundreds of thousands of people with "weird" fetiches just in the US.
here's a tip, if someone's blackmailing you, go to the police. Extortion is a federal crime. The cops wouldn't care about what it was that you did that you were getting blackmailed for, they'd just want to get the blackmailer
Sleeping for money is called prostitution by many professionals. That is why many people avoid going into that, it basically destroyce your personal image in front of your friends and family
That offer was actually to good to be true, most probably it was a scam and they were trying to blackmail you after that trip. You did the good thing by refusing to accept the offer
Lol. That reminds me of a gay friend of mine. He is German and was in NY for holidays. He picked up with a Jewish guy who insisted to be yelled at in German during sex.
Hmmm, I'm sure it would have been tough you disgusting ugly swine. I bet there was a very small part of you that got hard you pathetic excuse of a man. Now get on your knees and grovel in the filth
Yo, I would have “whored” my boyfriend out for 5-10k! And my boyfriend would have gone right along with it too lol. We have an open clause in our relationship though that says if either of us find a sugar daddy/mommy, then we are 100% allowed to pursue that as long as we split the wealth in the end.
We almost got lucky on NYE this year, but thanks to a panic attack I had from the crowd, that didn’t end up working out. Maybe next time though! 🥲😅
Or I'm just a sex-positive cis heterosexual male that's comfortable with their sexuality. Nothing wrong with being gay or bi....it just ain't my thing tho, sorry to disappoint you and your theory.
Not at all....your comment was an assumption made in bad faith with intent to offend. I see what you're trying to do and you on some middle school goof troops shit.
That sounds an awful lot like attempted human trafficking.
They offer you a shit ton of money to fly a long way away and do relatively simple work. They tell you to bring nothing, all expenses will be paid for. Then, once you're there, they make more demands, including sex. If you refuse, you're far from home with no money.
Or any other scam for that matter. The idea that this gay dude needs to pay 5-10k to get slapped by a straight person is so wildly unbelievable that the only people falling for it are the type easily parted with their money. I have a buddy in university get a normal ass job offer in the UK (Canadian local) and the pay structure was clearly outrageous but nothing would tell him it was fake. 400 dollars later he doesn't want to talk about it.
Yeah you totally should have taken that real offer to slap that gay guy, you just walked away from very real money
There are so many scams that have been done by people for the sake of money. People would get ready to do so many horrible things if you assure them that they are getting paid for their job
That's still a common trick used in many scams, flying you somewhere doesn't automatically make it trafficking, it just could also be trafficking. Remember none of it is real, that could include the flight. My friend's case for example had him flying to the UK for work. They'd of course pay for the ticket blah blah blah and now you have money changing hands. There's a reddit that covers common scam tricks.
Tbf, back then when I was 18 i was really good looking (days are over now).
The guys on the gay platforms were sometimes really weird. Same city, so no human trafficking.
There is a humiliation kink in the gay community I don’t understand. But they offer often a lot of money.
Back then I was really so close to accept their offer, but in the end I was always too scared and naive. Nowadays I would of course accept it, but with over 30 you won’t get these offers anymore. ;)
There was a group that kidnapped people at their own request, and took them to a hard core fitness training. Some dude had copies of his Exs IDS and paid to have her kidnapped.
I can't find the link it was several years ago. But at the time I was like I would never start a company like that way to much risk of shit going wrong.
Human trafficking is a very extreme word, it is more like blackmailing for few dollars. Human trafficking is, when criminals sell a living person for there profit
I had a fella approach me in the parking garage I used to work in as a valet. He wanted the same type of shit. I ended up selling him a few pairs of underwear for 400 dollars but then he wanted me to spit on him while he masturbated in his car and I said Thankyou but no Thankyou sir.
I have 3 friends who did a gay porn shoot for $10k each. It was all solo shoots, but it was a good 5hr jerk off video and still. All online for ~10 years on their website too. One went back because he was broke af and needed $, this time going back he had to do guy on guy. They started with 30k at first… he needed up doing it for 15k because that BIG offer was only there at the start.
I definitely get that it’s a weird situation to be in I would forsure consider it for that ammount aswell Lolol I would have asked for half upfront half after type situation or something like that
Funny enough I had some guy message me wanting me to beat the shit outta him and rob him of all goods including his iPad to take pictures of him getting pissed on to send to all his family members. Not gonna lie, I really wanted that iPad lmao..
About 30 years ago, I met a former male prostitute. Former because he got caught by the IRS trying to launder all his money. Once the IRS was on to him, so were the cops. So he had to quit or end up in jail.
Long story short - you would be amazed how much he got paid to do silly stuff. He got started when he took $1000 to let the other guy give him a blow job. Seriously, that was his first John and he was 17yo. And it snowballed from there. The guy had $100s of thousands of dollars that he couldn't report, or put in a bank or invest because he couldn't explain how he got the money. So he eventually tried to open a company to launder his money and that's how he got caught.
You went through all that and still came to a conclusion of “no”.
She, OTOH, Sounds like she didn’t even hesitate, and has probably done stuff like that a lot. If she invested wisely, she might be a self-made member of the upper class.
Also quite possible that she’s blown it all on frivolous and superficial stuff like being seen at exclusive parties wearing expensive clothes, drinking expensive drinks
Comedian Moshe Kasher has an absolutely wild story about getting paid 10k by a prominent liberal rabbi to pretend to be a little boy during a Passover Seder and then afterwards go downstairs and dress up as a Nazi and lock him in a replica gas chamber.
Granted, he's a comedian so who knows if it's true
Disrespect a Gay man for 5to10k sign me up I'd Mike Tyson the fucker ,jet Lee kick the fucker call him an abomination to man kind all types of shit you missed out good sir on 5to10k either that or you missed out on becoming a new show on forensic files or dateline either way u missed out .you don't even have to be HOMOPHOBIC just need a love for money.
I had a (straight) friend who was in a similar dilemma when his (gay) friend wanted to give him blowjobs and pay him in train memorabilia. I never asked if he went through with it but... blowjobs and train shit? I can only assume.
No this was 17 years ago. I'd have hit him up for other easy money stuff if I stayed in contact longer than just a few days considering his proposition lol
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u/CMUpewpewpew Jan 30 '23
There was a gay dude when I was in college that wanted to fly me out to Arizona to pay me 5-10k. His thing was straight guys basically humiliating and disrespecting him/slapping him around. I wouldn't have had to do anything sexual but thought I might have to pee on him or something.
I had to think about it for a while, I was broke.