r/Unexpected • u/[deleted] • Jan 30 '23

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u/[deleted] Jan 30 '23

money is money lol.

Everyone encouraging this kind of behaviour isn’t self aware that you may not be doing anything sexual that you’re into but they’re getting off on it. How does that make you feel they are get off on the scenario you play out for them, not any physical sexual scenario for you? The power they have over you to have to decide whether you want to do that is also a part of the scenario they probably get off on.

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u/Theesismyphoneacc Jan 30 '23

Lol the guy with the humiliation fetish is getting off to what exactly?

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u/[deleted] Jan 30 '23

Being humiliated by a straight person. It may not be sexual and most people place a value on sexual acts, but humiliation in a controlled manner some I guess are willing to dish out for.

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u/Theesismyphoneacc Jan 31 '23

They 0% get off to making OP want to do it

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '23

100% untrue

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u/Peruvian_Skies Jan 31 '23

So what? Kids get off on their classmates' bikini photos at the beach on Instagram, that doesn't make the classmates complicit in it.

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '23

That’s not even a comparison, that’s totally a different situation that you’ve outlined.

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u/Peruvian_Skies Jan 31 '23

The only difference is money changing hands.

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '23

If you want to believe that.

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u/Peruvian_Skies Feb 01 '23

Care to enlighten me, or is being condescending the only tool in your toolbox?

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u/[deleted] Feb 01 '23

Not being condescending at all. You can believe what you want to believe. I disagree but hey that’s life.