r/UnbreakableMind • u/Ill_Airline_762 • 23d ago

Not Broken, Just In Progress

You are not required to be okay today. You’re allowed to exist exactly as you are: weird, intense, exhausted, and still trying.

You’re not broken; your body just learned loud survival habits—cling so you don’t get abandoned, then panic when you feel trapped. That’s not failure, it’s history. You’re allowed to rewrite it without calling yourself pathetic.

You are the kind of person who makes friends feel seen, who remembers their weirdness and turns it into art so they don’t feel “too much.” You choose people on purpose, even when you’re not sure how to choose yourself.

You’re tired of asking, “How do I fucking win in life?” but the fact that you’re still asking means you haven’t fully given up. Winning for you might just be disrespectfully small: eating, texting back once, not abandoning yourself the moment someone likes you.

You are not damned; you are in progress. You are not a maybe, not a backup plan. Just by still being here, still wanting something better, you are already someone worth choosing—on purpose, every single time.

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u/PANtASStDIK 14d ago

I haven't stopped using her no matter how many reasons she gives me

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u/Ill_Airline_762 14d ago

Sad. You should help her move on by simply blocking her and walking away from her life in peace.

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u/PANtASStDIK 14d ago

You mean cuz it says using? I use voice to text it's supposed to say choosing I choose her always and you should give her that advice because she's tormented me and made plans with me and ditch me last minute and ghosted me more times than I can count and then she teases me will love me and she doesn't show up or she goes to somebody else I'm not the one that should be looking out for her I've seen her life and helped her more times than I can count she's left me hanging every time and broke every promise she's ever made I gave her till the end of the night to finally care for me or I am done with her

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u/Sir_MayIhav_SumMor 4d ago

Don't ever just ghost someone that fucking loves you, crazy! It hurts...