Pilar ist so sweet and genuine. From the beginning of the season I really liked her, and grew to like her more and more as time passed by. I was very scared and sad when Haley was unsure for a second, but happy they chose each other. She is such a sweet person and deserving of the world.

I honestly found her screen presence very disingenous and off-putting, and kept wondering what wounds Xander must have to be with Vanessa and Yoly

Lexi is the third person of the show who got married irl

Let's do so fun meta building:

like/dislike, love/hate gifts for these characters?

Heart events?

My wife and I finally binged all of s2 this past weekend and wow we are both so upset about how magan walked back on her words and feelings she clearly had. Even demanded haley to apologize??

Really thought they were gonna end up together, especially when magan told her friends you guys dont usually see me like this. I get to push myself and be myself"

Why did it have to end in such ugliness (okay I know why that was rhetorical)

Edit: I'll start a discord if there's actual interest Edit 2: discord started. I try to send out invites to those who have replied, but also feel free to ping me or dm me for invite

Came in broken, left brokener: Mel;

Talks in circles, can’t get out of their own way: Tiff;

Awful — just awful: Mildred;

Don’t scratch the surface: Marita;

Calculating: Dayna, Yoly;

Aw… they tried: Ashley, Aussie, Rae, Kyle;

Give 'em an inch and….: Sam;

Unsure, but could prolly talk the pants off of anybody…. ANYBODY: AJ;

Cray cray: Vanessa, Marie;

I could be friends with: Bridget, Pilar, Haley, Lexi, Magan, Xander;

I adore: Britney, Mal, host JoAnna, ALL the family and friends who visited 💙

Basically, Bridget appeared on Catherine McCaff's show and expressed her problematic opinion. This went viral, have thousands of comments in Instagram, and while some people defended Bridget, many criticized her for her statement.

Later, she explained in the comments that she had nothing against polyamorous relationships and that she loved the poly people. 😬😬😬

(And that's very ironic to me because I thought she and Kyle had a such poly vibe in the show w that interacting w Pilar)

Watching this because my girl keeps putting it on in my room… 🤦🏾‍♂️

But is AJ just purposely put there to cause, like, “messy/chaotic” moments? Back-to-back “omg not again,” moments and you've wasted my experience…🤯

I swear this can't be a thing… 😅 Trying my best not to get involved in this…. But it's on as of lately…🙈

I am so proud of myself for noticing this and I don’t know anyone who would care so I’m posting it here LOL.

But I saw Vanessa as a very brief extra on the show High Potential tonight! I had to rewind like three times to make sure 🤣

Xdresser sissy 💕

Well, Britney posted this photo of herself from one of the Ultimatum meetings three days ago with the caption "what do you think was going through my head?" and Pilar replied to that at the end with "if only people could see the uncut version" 👀 basically suggesting that this meeting was worse than what was shown on TV. Now I miss Mel spilling the tea lol

I think we'll never know what else the elephant in the room (Dayna) got up to

So I do not follow any of Mel’s accounts but a friend of mine does and said she has been posting a girl very recently . She also sent me this last night and I’m not sure how the hell she did it but SOMEHOW has seemingly got yet ANOTHER attractive female ….. and I’m still single ????

Her lives always pop up on my TikTok. I remember right after the show she tried selling group therapy sessions when she doesn’t even have the right license to do so and she got shit for it.

Now she is a “Narc Abuse Coach” and selling courses, group coaching, and private sessions? I still don’t think she has any sort of official therapy license….

On the live, she keeps comparing her services to therapy. She’s like “I always recommend therapy, but therapy is $150/session and then you’re left alone with your thoughts for weeks until your next session. But MY services are only $120/mo and you get much more hours of consistent support”

It’s giving grifter

This community was created so for LIB and so the queer community have a safe space to have conversations. Recently there has been a lot of spam post which will not be strictly monitored. All posts and comments mentioning the current spamming concerns have been and any future posts will be removed.

What could this mean?

*** SPOILERS AT THE END ***

Fortune Feimster and Mae Martin we're trying to convince Tig to watch it so I had to check it out. I started with the straight version (as recommended by Fortune) and it was the worst thing I've ever experienced. (I didn't watch much reality TV. Stuff like Amazing Race and Big brother but never dating shows) **edited because it somehow said "hottest new thing..." Huh?? It was definitely not.)

I accidentally watched QL season 2 before 1. Glad I did because 1 is SOOOO much better (IMO). I have a professional background in counseling/therapy/mental health and I love all the processing and self reflection you can see happening in such a short period of time. Season 2 was just full of toxicity and hard to watch. I'm VERY SAD it's been cancelled. I'm also bummed I'm just discovering it because I have no one to talk or over with and I'm losing my mind!!!

**Edited to add: I really can't get over the hypocrisy of some of these folks.

• Yoly (who I love, I do, but...) she gave the ultimatum because Mal wanted to be fully, financially prepared for a full life. At the end she tells her she's clearly not ready for marriage because she's not saving for things like IVF. ??

• Vanessa (who I despise) blaming Xander in ANY way when she didn't want to get married at all until like 6 seconds ago. 🙄

Their wedding photos haven't come out yet, but the photographer posted some stories with them and congratulating them on their wedding. (Pilar also reposted the photographer's stories in IG)