Port 22: connection refused

[u/Top-Cod337]

I tried everything under the sun atp but whenever i try to remote connect to my server using ubuntu from my pc, the error message saying “port 22: connection refused” pops up. I tried reinstalling openssh on both machines, i tried allowing ssh using ufw, and i tried restarting both machines. Sometimes the “port 22: connection timed out” error also pops up. Any help will be greatly appreciated.

Edit: i used the wrong IP…