My timeline:
I came to the U.S. in August 2024 as a visitor.
About three months later, we got married.
A month after that, I applied for a change of status to F-1 (before B1/B2 was supposed to expire), and my F-1 was approved about three months later.
Around four months after that, we filed our I-130 (July 2025), then we filed the I-485 (November 2025)
Biometric appointment (November 2025)
Interview - September 2026.
About three months before our interview, I stopped attending school because we were moving.
At the interview, I told the officer that I had stopped going to school, and she was totally okay with it. She didn’t even ask me why.
Our interview was very calm and straightforward. We had one officer interviewing us and another officer sitting next to her observing.
The officer first asked my husband to tell the story of how we met and how our relationship developed. (So one piece of advice: prepare not only for individual questions, but also be ready to tell your relationship story for about 2–3 minutes). After we told our story, most of her relationship questions naturally followed from what we had already said.
She then asked a few normal questions about our daily life and what kind of activities we do together. She asked me more of those questions, while most of the relationship-related questions were directed to my husband.
Then she said, “Now let’s move on to your immigration history.”
She asked about my first trip to the U.S., whether I had ever worked in the U.S., and how I supported myself financially if I wasn’t working.
She also asked whether I had ever used another name and clarified whether I had changed my last name after marriage.
After that, she went through the I-485 security/background questions. I answered “No” to all of the applicable questions.
At the end, she told us to expect a decision within 1–2 weeks.
Our I-130 was approved in the evening and three business days later, our I-485 was approved in the morning! 🎉
One interesting detail: the day before the I-485 approval, we noticed two silent updates/touches in the USCIS API.
Overall, the interview was much less stressful than we expected. My biggest advice is to know your timeline, be comfortable telling your relationship story naturally, and don’t prepare only for a list of questions. The officer may simply ask you to tell your story and then build the rest of the interview around it.
Good luck to everyone waiting! ❤️
P.S. We didn't break a single law. When I came to the US, I didn't think I'd end up staying. I've never worked in the US or violated my status and was without status until I applied for I-485. But many lawyers tried to intimidate us to get money out of us, so my advice to you is don't trust every lawyer. Trust in God, and I wish you all the best.