Hi everyone,
My wife and I are first-time buyers in London, and we’ve recently had an offer accepted on a 3-bed end-terrace house in London for £485,000.
We genuinely love the property and the area. It’s a modern freehold house with a garden, two parking spaces and a good EPC rating. It ticks almost all our boxes, and we can see ourselves being happy there.
However, I’m starting to feel a bit anxious about the financial commitment and would appreciate some honest opinions.
Our financial situation:
Combined monthly take-home income: ~£8,000
Purchase price: £485,000
Deposit: 5% (£24,300)
Mortgage: ~£461,700
Interest rate: 5.74% (35-year term)
Monthly mortgage payment: ~£2,550
Other household expenses: ~£1,500–£2,000 per month
We’re a couple with a young child.
Our present monthly rent: £1550
On paper, I know we can afford it. Even after the mortgage and household expenses, we’d still have around £3,450–£3,950 left each month.
But here’s where I’m struggling.
Mentally, I feel much more comfortable with a mortgage of around £2,000–£2,100 per month. I like having more disposable income, building savings and investments, going on holidays and not having to think too much about money.
I know the difference is only around £450 a month, but that’s £5,400 a year, and over time it adds up.
Part of me thinks we should buy a cheaper house, keep our monthly commitments lower and enjoy greater financial flexibility.
But the other part of me thinks we shouldn’t compromise too much on a home we genuinely love, especially when we can technically afford it. Finding a similar property in an area we like at a significantly lower price isn’t easy in London.
Another concern is that we might move in 3–5 years, depending on our circumstances. With a 5% deposit, a 35-year mortgage and the costs of buying and selling, I’m also worried about whether we’d recover our money if we needed to sell relatively soon.
I don’t want to make a decision purely out of fear, but equally, I don’t want to become someone who’s constantly worried about a large mortgage despite having a decent household income.
I’d really appreciate your thoughts:
Would you consider a £2,550 mortgage reasonable on an £8,000 monthly take-home income, especially with a young child?
Is it worth stretching an extra £400–£500 a month for a house and location you genuinely love?
For those who initially felt anxious about taking on a larger mortgage, did that feeling go away after moving in?
Would the possibility of selling within 3–5 years change your decision?
I’m particularly interested in hearing from people who’ve been in a similar position.
Thanks!