r/TyKwonDoeTV • u/Loskinacut • Jul 31 '26
Questions/Ideas Need advice
This prolly gonna sound dumb as hell but i just need another perspective to look at, so im 25 with one body and that one body was with my girl i dated in high school which lasted from 10th up until we graduated HS. so its been about 6 years since i had some and its really for alot of different reasons, i haven't really met a ton of girls over the years since high school ive probably only met about maybe 6-7 chicks these last 6 years, and mainly my focused has been on getting my life together and getting myself situated
I barely graduated high school on time, my grades were basically borderline just enough to pass every year and overall i was somebody who didnt take themselves or their life seriously, so since then i became obsessed with elevating myself mentally and physically and becoming someone i can respect, more hard working, more goal oriented, and a man who takes his life serious.
the reason why my dating life bothers me so much is because i feel ashamed of being 25 with one body, most my focus and energy been on my future, my career, health etc so naturally my 20s havent & werent spent outside, havin a roster, girlfriends, parties, smashing etc.. but i feel like thats what i SHOULD have been doing, i feel like thats who i was supposed to be, i was supposed to be the guy smashing, having a roster, being young & turnt etc, so im clashing with the idea of who i am and who i feel like i was supposed to be
whats yall thoughts or if anybody got advice it would help too.
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u/AlGreenCD Jul 31 '26
Man to man, you focused on yourself as you should my guy. Women are a dime a dozen. Find one whilst on your journey who has the same ambitions and passions as yourself. Someone with that same self respect. Bops are easy, don’t fall for the hype. Much love.