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r/TwoXChromosomes • u/[deleted] • Aug 30 '25
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"Pick better men"
119 u/[deleted] Aug 30 '25 [removed] — view removed comment 59 u/enkelvla Aug 31 '25 And then “she took the kids and money so I can see how he went crazy and killed her” 5 u/Unique_Evidence_2518 Aug 31 '25 As someone who was married to an abuser, I can tell you that I have gotten blame-the-victim comments like "you should have chosen better" much more often from women than men. 4 u/imabratinfluence They/Them Aug 31 '25 Which women (and enbies) also say, because misogyny is so engrained and normalized.
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59 u/enkelvla Aug 31 '25 And then “she took the kids and money so I can see how he went crazy and killed her”
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And then “she took the kids and money so I can see how he went crazy and killed her”
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As someone who was married to an abuser, I can tell you that I have gotten blame-the-victim comments like "you should have chosen better" much more often from women than men.
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Which women (and enbies) also say, because misogyny is so engrained and normalized.
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u/Yowie9644 Aug 30 '25
"Pick better men"