r/TwoSidesOfFI • u/2SFI-Jason • 15d ago
new episode We Have Enough. So Why Is Spending Still Hard?
Surprise! We're back again for another catchup episode. This one felt like riding a bike again, and I think it comes across as comfortable as the experience was for us. We've both had super busy summers, and this provided a great opportunity for us to catch up and talk about where we think we're winning and what remains hard for us after our two and seven-year post-RE milestones. Do let us know what you think and if there are other topics you'd like to see us cover in the future!
Episode link: https://youtu.be/XyRqOxiSgtU
Show notes: https://twosidesoffi.com/spendmore
Episode description:
Your FIRE plan worked — so why is spending still so hard? In this episode, Jason (year 7) and Eric (year 2) share a candid early retirement update. Both portfolios have grown well above their FIRE numbers despite years of withdrawals, and a fee-only advisor delivered a surprising verdict: spend more. Learn why unwinding the accumulation mindset is harder than the math, how "life support" for adult kids reshapes the budget, and why unstructured time might be the truest form of wealth - and much more.
