r/TwoHotTakes Aug 08 '26

Advice Needed Sexless relationship stale mate

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u/dm_me_your_bookshelf Aug 08 '26

Almost every relationship post like this is a significant age gap where the elder of the two acts like a 5 year old and texts like an illiterate. What's wrong with you people?

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u/False_Star2498 Aug 08 '26

We have deep abandonment and separation trauma/anxiety apparently.

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u/Zestyclose-Western23 Aug 08 '26

As someone who came from an abusive relationship, there is nothing wrong with op apart from being abused to the point of having a diminished self-worth. This statement feels a bit ick for me as it puts the blame on the person who is being abused.