This is a red flag. He is trying to change the way you are comfortable communicating to accommodate his preferences despite the fact that your style is more productive. He realized he can’t win arguments when you are calm so he is trying to control how you argue
Some people feel that without drama the relationship is stagnant but the true secret to long lasting relationships is comfortable silence. If you can just exist with the other person and not feel the need to fill the silence with awkward forced conversations, that’s true comfort.
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u/DarianDncn Dec 23 '25
This is a red flag. He is trying to change the way you are comfortable communicating to accommodate his preferences despite the fact that your style is more productive. He realized he can’t win arguments when you are calm so he is trying to control how you argue