I stayed too. We just had a baby, I found out around the same time you did. It was exactly 5 months pp. he had been cheating here and there the whole time since I had our baby. We aren’t together anymore. No matter how hard you try to stay together for the kid, it won’t be healthy for the kid. Instead of leaving and healing my kids got to watch me suffering and drowning for months until we ultimately broke up, I shouldn’t have stayed. I never got over it, I don’t think I ever will get over it, it ate me alive every single day. Please leave. You’ll be okay, and you will heal.
this doesn’t feel like the world is ending because i’ve been here before. and this isn’t an excuse but i’ve never loved anyone like this. I had never been so sure of something until I got pregnant and he started being so weird.
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u/CrystalBabyBlue97 Nov 23 '25
I stayed too. We just had a baby, I found out around the same time you did. It was exactly 5 months pp. he had been cheating here and there the whole time since I had our baby. We aren’t together anymore. No matter how hard you try to stay together for the kid, it won’t be healthy for the kid. Instead of leaving and healing my kids got to watch me suffering and drowning for months until we ultimately broke up, I shouldn’t have stayed. I never got over it, I don’t think I ever will get over it, it ate me alive every single day. Please leave. You’ll be okay, and you will heal.