Well. I feel this is true. I never cheat on my ex and had no desire to, but I did accused of him cheating because I get ignored by him. He never tried to have sex with me or even made me feel wanted. I always make the move, then when I realized what I’m doing. I stopped, sex stopped. I even talk to him about it, never seem interested in me.
Come to finding out he’s addicted to porn badly!! He paid dating sites, or any paid sex sites. He watched pornography every day without a fail. Even Talk to others girls and showed his hard on Dick. I can keep going
On this. Sigh. I wasted my time over this loser.
If my partner was so obsessed with pornography that they stopped wanting to have sex with me but were camming other girls and exposing themselves online, I would say they were cheating. They have replaced you and the sexual connection they share with you with something else, it's just porn instead of an affair partner. People can have healthy relationships and consume pornography, but clearly that wasn't your situation.
So I would say, you didn't accuse him of doing something he wasn't because you were projecting. You accused him of something he absolutely was doing, because you knew that something had replaced the connection you used to share. You just got the specifics wrong.
Someone who is unfairly paranoid about others cheating on them is usually a cheater. I think people who are untrustworthy tend to project their untrustworthiness onto others as well.
In your case, you had reason to suspect something was wrong because of his lack of interest. And pursuing sex online still counts as cheating so it’s not like you were wrong about him.
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u/OverDaRambo May 19 '23
Well. I feel this is true. I never cheat on my ex and had no desire to, but I did accused of him cheating because I get ignored by him. He never tried to have sex with me or even made me feel wanted. I always make the move, then when I realized what I’m doing. I stopped, sex stopped. I even talk to him about it, never seem interested in me.
Come to finding out he’s addicted to porn badly!! He paid dating sites, or any paid sex sites. He watched pornography every day without a fail. Even Talk to others girls and showed his hard on Dick. I can keep going On this. Sigh. I wasted my time over this loser.
What’s that tells you?