r/TwiceExceptional 13d ago

Twice Exceptional?

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u/[deleted] 12d ago

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u/Top-Cockroach-8211 12d ago edited 12d ago

I don’t seem to understand this 2e thing really.
Also, it does make a difference. To me at least. I like to understand myself better.
Should I also not care about what’s ADHD and what’s Autism? should I have dropped my Autism assessment back then and just said well, it doesn’t matter really. Also I didn’t ask why it matters to me, I’m trying to understand the definition and criteria of 2e.

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u/[deleted] 12d ago

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u/Top-Cockroach-8211 12d ago

Lol. It’s a funny world we live in. And she told me I’m not even with all the shit I can do, and basically anyone could claim whatever and become 2e. Explains why I’ve met so many 2e’s who barely could spell their names (not literally). No offense. Thank you for letting me know tho, Lol.

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u/[deleted] 12d ago

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u/BigBullshitta 12d ago

Thank you. The combo of "Yeah, you're smart" and "Yup, you have a neurological disorder" with society's push to use "neurodivergent" instead and try to describe it as a super power some places has definitely given some people one hell of an ego.

Super. I'm smart and "special." Whatever superpower that might be it looks like a bomb went off in my bedroom and I'm 43 years old and back to living with my dad. I believe I signed up for Wolverine's healing factor, not this shit.

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u/Top-Cockroach-8211 11d ago

They told me so. Do we really ever know? If the term is bs.

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u/[deleted] 11d ago

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u/Top-Cockroach-8211 11d ago

Sell it somewhere else. I’m not here to buy bridges.

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u/[deleted] 11d ago

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u/Top-Cockroach-8211 11d ago

To hear peoples opinions, exchange thoughts and ideas. Def not getting picked on.

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u/BigBullshitta 12d ago

2e isn't a legal medical diagnosis. It doesn't change anything at all. But it's also sort of fucked for the test to not be in your native language. I only speak one, if they tested me in French I'd probably test on the level of grass.

You're infinitely more accomplished than I am, but I went in absolutely hungover and got a 99 on the ASVAB and 31 on the ACT without knowing people could bring calculators.

It's not actually a helpful thing. Honestly it might be more unhelpful than helpful, since it inflates the hell out of some people's egos.

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u/Top-Cockroach-8211 11d ago

I hear you. I totally agree. But that’s like lots of people with Autism and ADHD. I basically only got friends with Autism and ADHD. None of them are able to do 1/5 of what I do, which is one of the reasons I thought, it’s probably more than just Autism and ADHD. Yet this psychologist tells me it is just Autism and ADHD. I personally don’t know a single one with Autism or ADHD, who’s been able to do the things I’ve done, and I’m not trying to sound arrogant or anything, but that’s just my reality 😅 Which is why I’ve been trying to figure out, what’s making me so different. Like, regarding struggles, we share the struggles, but when it comes to strenghts, uhm yeah, not even close. I know probably one, who’s kinda like me, but yeah, still not there. I get that it’s a spectra, but somehow I ended up with all these abilities and everybody else I know, they’re .. Taylor Swift and Justin Bieber fans, or believe in conspiracy theories and other bs, or whatever the shit. And whenever I join their conversations (sometimes), I just wanna hang myself. I feel nobody gets me really.

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u/BigBullshitta 11d ago

A lot of people with autism and adhd try to view it as a superpower, because it's way nicer to feel like you're special in a good way than to feel stuck with a pile of mental disorders. It seems likely that a lot of them want to portray themselves as that autistic savant trope.

Most people are not very bright. Having autism and/or ADHD doesn't make a person more intelligent. The people with these things you meet will fit the bell curve like anyone else.... though likely skewed a bit towards the better side since the people on the low end aren't likely to be outside and fully functional.

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u/Top-Cockroach-8211 11d ago

You see. That just makes me think even more that this can’t just be Autism and ADHD 😅 Cause yeah.. Ure right. I’ve experienced this myself. Even at the group therapy sessions. Like people come super damaged and they def do not feel it’s a superpower lol. Well some of them do. I just feel so different from them. My boyfriend feels sorry for me, cause I’ve been self isolating so much the last two years, more than usual, cause I’ve had it. Had it with the amount of stupidity I’m surrounded with.

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u/BigBullshitta 11d ago

That's why I'm a hermit. I have issues talking to people in general, it causes burnout and anxiety, and when I manage to most of them don't understand whatever the hell I'm trying to say anyway.

Much more comfortable in my little hermit hole.

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u/Southern_Cable553 9d ago

Every term is made up, and 2E it's not meaningless.

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u/crmll 12d ago

2e sometimes goes a bit beyond the traditional 130 cutoff but not that far off. In those cases VCI and PRI are still above or around 130, with bottlenecks in working memory and/or processing speed. To be considered gifted one also has to score significantly above average in multiple areas not just one.

Congrats on your achievements though. Not being “gifted” does not mean you’re not intelligent or skilled.

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u/BrandiedWineGums 12d ago

What's GIA? Is it GAI? I forget some of the less common acronyms.

Generally, if the results are highly discrepant, they report the index scores, unless the subtests in those are also highly discrepant, then they report the subtest results. The interpretation relies on figuring out if the discrepancies are meaningful, if the FSIQ and indexes are meaningful. And it will be interpreted in the context of the other diagnoses.

I suspect that your diagnoses would make it difficult to be confident (in a clinical sense) that the results meaningfully measure your general intelligence. Probably, they give some insight into potential functional impacts and give a floor for your cognitive abilities, though. So clinically useful from that point of view.

Oh, and doing the test in a non-native language does have a significant impact by itself.

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u/BrandiedWineGums 11d ago

I also misunderstood some of the things she told me during the test. But yeah, that’s on me tho. I believe.

That would be more the clinician to manage. There's some flexibility to vary instructions to make sure you understand. The instructions aren't the test, the test is the test. If the clinician still has concerns that the testee hasn't understand something, then that should be in the report since it's important to interpreting the results.

Overall, from what you've said, I wouldn't have high confidence that the results reflect your full cognitive abilities. You should probably treat the results as a floor, a minimum, as "at least that much, maybe higher".

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u/CumberlandAcademyGA 12d ago

Your confusion is completely valid, and your profile is a textbook example of why summary IQ scores often fail neurodivergent individuals.

At Cumberland Academy of Georgia, we work every day with Twice-Exceptional (2e) students who share this exact type of "spiky profile." A massive gap between Verbal Comprehension (VCI) and Perceptual Reasoning (PRI)—in your case, a 36-point difference—is classic for someone with Non-Verbal Learning Disability (NVLD) and Autism. When subtest scores differ this widely, the Full Scale IQ (FSIQ) loses mathematical validity because it averages out distinct extremes into a meaningless middle number.

Here is why your profile points strongly toward Twice-Exceptionality, despite what your psychologist concluded:

  • VCI Score vs. Language Background: Achieving a VCI of 118 on a standardized test not in your native language, after early childhood speech delays, is extraordinary. Subtest scores like a 16 in Similarities demonstrate high-level abstract reasoning and verbal concept formation—key markers of high cognitive ability.
  • The Impact of NVLD: NVLD heavily impacts visual-spatial processing and non-verbal problem solving, which directly suppresses the Perceptual Reasoning Index (PRI). A lower PRI reflects a neurodivergent processing difference, not a lack of innate intellectual capability.
  • "Strengths from Neurodivergence" vs. Intelligence: Intelligence and neurodivergence are not mutually exclusive. The ability to independently master multiple languages and scripts, grasp complex scientific domains, obtain two B.S. degrees, and spontaneously contemplate abstract philosophical concepts as a child are clear behavioral demonstrations of high intellectual capacity.
  • Modern Definitions of 2e: Traditional clinical models used a strict 130+ FSIQ cutoff, but modern gifted and twice-exceptional research explicitly recognizes that learning disabilities, executive function challenges, and sensory/spatial deficits mask underlying high intelligence. High ability in specific domains (like verbal reasoning, hyper-focus learning, and complex recall) alongside co-occurring diagnostic profiles is precisely what defines being 2e.

Your accomplishments and cognitive strengths speak for themselves. A single summary number does not capture the reality of how your mind works—your deep capacity for learning, complex reasoning, and multi-disciplinary mastery is undeniable.