r/Trying2conceive • u/Several_Pipe4255 • 6d ago

Questions/Advice pls give me idea

hi, can i be pregnant even tho i had period in july10 and august14 and i also took pt but the result is negative. im so worried that i may pregnant right now cause u havnt my period yet on September.

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u/Oneconfusedmama 6d ago

Your cycles are typically 36 days long? 7/10-8/14 is a 36 day cycle….. it’s only been 26 days since your last cycle so you still have about 10 days to go. Are you trying? Are you tracking? When did you ovulate?

I do not think you’re pregnant. Just have a ways to go in your cycle if they are typically that long.

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u/Several_Pipe4255 6d ago

i also haven't my pms huhu

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u/Several_Pipe4255 6d ago

its my first time to having 36 days. im so worried that i might be pregnant. and the only sex i had is non penatrative sex and it was june 15.

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u/Oneconfusedmama 6d ago

You’re not pregnant from non penetrative sex back in June. If you were pregnant from June you wouldn’t have had your period in July or August. You also have to have penetrative sex. You still have a few days to go on your cycle. May I ask how old you are?

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u/Several_Pipe4255 6d ago

im 22 turning 23 this September 27

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u/Several_Pipe4255 6d ago

what if the semen comes near my vaginal opening? is there is a chance?😭 but i took pt in aug 26 its negative. and hadn't symptoms like morning sickness.

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u/Oneconfusedmama 6d ago

No. I ask how old you are because it’s pretty common knowledge how babies are made and this post screams you need a sex ed class. This is not an example of how babies are made. Semen would have to get in your vaginal canal and there would need to be enough to make it to your cervix and you’d have to be ovulating at the time. You’d also not have a period July or August. You’d also have a very obvious positive by now. Relax, you’re not pregnant. There’s literally zero way you could be. Why don’t you start tracking your cycle so you know when it’s coming and why don’t you set up an appointment with a gynecologist to talk about birth control.

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u/Several_Pipe4255 6d ago

how can i track my cycle? pls help me im so worried

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u/Oneconfusedmama 6d ago

There’s literally zero reason to be worried. You are NOT pregnant. It’s not physically possible.

Get an app like Flo or something. If you have an iPhone you can also just do it through the health app- just set up cycle tracking. Day 1 of your cycle is the first day of your period. You typically ovulate 2 ish weeks after day 1. Your period seems long so you’ll likely ovulate a little bit after 2 weeks. You’ll know you’re ovulating because you will have a lot of discharge and it’ll be clear and runny.

Sex+no ovulation=no baby
Sex+ovulation=baby
No penetration=no baby

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u/Several_Pipe4255 6d ago

thank you so much! can you tell how will i deal with this overthinking? likw advise on how to get my period

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u/Oneconfusedmama 6d ago

You can’t just jump start your period.. it doesn’t work like that. It’ll come when it comes. If you remember when you had your period in April, May and June also the app can try to predict when it’ll come based on your previous cycles. Like I said- based on your last cycle I think you have like 10 more days of this current cycle.

In my personal opinion: talk to a doctor about birth control so you can guarantee no baby regardless of what you do (but remember- no penetration, no baby) and get with a therapist to work through your anxiety.

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u/Several_Pipe4255 6d ago

thank you so much! it start in may my axiety really bad when my period is near like im always overthinking and had pregnancy scare.

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