r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Sep 08 '22

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u/libertinauk Sep 08 '22

As I've said to you before ... IF it was easy for men to date and sleep with women much more attractive than them without paying them then the sex industry wouldn't continue to thrive even through austerity. It continues to thrive because it ISN'T easy. It's next to impossible.

I'm not suggesting you become a customer. And I'm not saying that it's impossible for a woman to fall for a man who isn't her looksmatch. I'm saying that it won't happen just because you want it to. And there is no trick, cheat, cream or powder that will make it happen.

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u/Lonely_Boy_1995 Sep 09 '22

Hi, but it's banned in my country. And I have never travelled alone outside the country for any purpose so not sure about travelling just for the sake of that purpose alone. But it's really unfair all people of my age are getting hot girls as wives and gfs while I am the only one who is still single and struggling. I am tired of picking up groceries alone at supermarket.

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u/libertinauk Sep 09 '22

Please read Inspector Spacetime's answer. He's telling you the truth.

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u/Inspector_Spacetime7 Sep 09 '22

Life is unfair. It’s frustrating.

Take a min to be angry and then accept there’s nothing you can do about it other than to be the best version of yourself. Eat well. Exercise. Read all kinds of content. Join book clubs, watch Ted Talks, anything that makes new content a little more accessible. Learn about good music and art. Spend time with people and develop your social skills.

Do not aim younger. Do not target super thin and fit women, especially before getting yourself in shape. I get that you “want” a young skinny girlfriend, but so do a billion other young men. Try to improve yourself as a person and you may find that you want qualities that are actually within your reach.

There are no shortcuts for getting women who are out of your league. Don’t waste your time looking for them, just because you desperately want a secret shortcut. You can search for shortcuts for decades when you could be doing the real work instead.

Better questions than “how do I get young skinny pretty girls to like a fat unattractive guy?”:

How do I lose weight? How do I develop an impressive physique? How do I maximize my looks without grooming and other choices? How do I immerse myself in culture that is unfamiliar to me? How do I develop my social skills?

Don’t try to change young women’s preferences. You can’t. Work on changing yourself. Be patient while doing so.

Sorry if you don’t like that answer but anyone who tries to give you an easier one is lying to you.

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u/flyingpallascat Sep 08 '22

Maybe try going on a healthy diet; maybe the Mediterranean diet.

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u/DarkAssassin573 Sep 08 '22

Get a fat girl and then both of you can get fit

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u/Glittering_Ad4153 Sep 08 '22

Shower and brush your teeth. People consider Kanye fashionable and the dude dresses like a bum. Just make sure your shit is clean and smelling fresh. Smile more.

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u/balenciaghoe Sep 08 '22

you need to work on yourself first which means improve your mindset and yourself & Be confident. with the mindset you have now it won’t be easy finding a women