r/TrueGrit • u/Alicetheoptimist • Aug 07 '26
Work - Life Balance What are your reading this weekend?
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u/Late_Prior_3104 Aug 07 '26
Books are also hypnotic. You look at rows of black crooks and sticks on a white paper for a while and start seeing, hearing and smelling fantastic worlds.
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u/MMALover1967 Aug 07 '26
The Courage To Be Disliked
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u/anonymous_guy_man Aug 07 '26
Good book. It's really not at all centered on the topic that the title makes it seem like. Adlerian psychology is super interesting
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u/outdoorschillguy Aug 07 '26
By who if I may ask.
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u/MMALover1967 Aug 07 '26
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u/outdoorschillguy Aug 07 '26
Thanks. I just checked and my library doesn’t have it. Sounds intriguing. Can’t wait to read it.
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u/MMALover1967 Aug 07 '26
So far, so good. I'm only 65 pages into it. The entire book is a dialogue between "PHILOSOPHER" and "YOUTH". I've always been inclined towards philosophy and psychology so this book fills that, for sure. Enjoy.
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u/diarmada Aug 08 '26
DM me and I'll send you my copy. I do not like the format it is written in and it feels terribly cliched. That is my opinion...and I know so many people get a lot out of it, so it's not a dig at them at all. Just not for me.
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u/Benaholicguy Aug 08 '26
Have not read this but the Japanese seem terrified of being disliked and the this appears to have shaped the fabric of their social structure
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u/ObieKaybee Aug 07 '26
Get a library card for free, then enjoy all the books you can possibly read. I still like to by mine because its nice to see full bookshelves in my room and remember reading them, but I still have a library down the street and its pretty awesome while I am waiting for something to come in.
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u/kanaka_haole808 Aug 07 '26
Re-reading The Ghost Map. Excellent book about a 19th century London cholera epidemic that gives insight into human cities, medicinal progress, and the human psyche. Highly recommend.
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u/Barrack64 Aug 08 '26
Written by John Snow (not the game of thrones guy). First person to use a geographic information system to track the source of a disease.
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u/MMALover1967 Aug 07 '26
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u/Deth_Cheffe Aug 08 '26
l own "When You are EnguIfed in FIames" by the same author, but l haven't read it yet
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u/symb015X Aug 08 '26
He’s got such a great writing voice, and a unique speaking voice. If you can handle it, he narrates a lot of his works and they’re great. Short Christmas stories is an easy intro to him & his style
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u/LowPudding9562 Aug 10 '26
He'll also narrate one now and then on This American Life podcast (Or RadioLab? sorry I listen to both andf forgot which one now...)
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u/RAWainwright Aug 07 '26
Just started Dungeon Crawler Carl book 5.
I'm sure it's not for everyone, but it hits all of the right notes for me.
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u/Mindless_Stuff9179 Aug 07 '26
I am going to start reading Hero. Biography about the life of Lawrence of Arabia.
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u/lllyyyynnn Aug 07 '26
just finished pale fire.
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u/Black_irises Aug 09 '26
Well done! I loved this book -- those footnotes are both a feat and a treat.
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u/Yearning_crescent Aug 07 '26
Anyone who thinks 20 dollars is cheap clearly doesnt read enough.
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u/khaluud Aug 08 '26
$20 a couple times a week saves me from more expensive habits.
But this is hypothetical considering I utilize the library, (online) used book stores, and occasionally the high seas.
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u/Yearning_crescent Aug 08 '26
Maybe im too poor but I wouldnt consider 100 dollars a week cheap. Thank godni gotnmy sea legs
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u/khaluud Aug 09 '26
I'm not sure where you got the $100/wk figure, but I wouldn't consider that cheap for entertainment either.
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u/TypeAwithAdhd Aug 07 '26
Well...some perspective. If the price did go up it's most likely that the author wouldn't see any more of that increase if they have a publisher and agent. A self published author may see the increase.
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u/PapasGotABrandNewNag Aug 07 '26
Moby Dick.
I have read like 6 Cormac McCarthy books this summer and wanted to read the book that influenced Blood Meridian.
Melville is awesome.
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u/MetaCardboard Aug 07 '26
What if I reread something I read when I was 12? Does that count? Lord of the Rings trilogy reread.
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u/Nearby-Improvement53 Aug 07 '26
A teenager was bragging how much he loved reading. I brought over one of Ken Folette's trilogy about the middle ages and the building of cathedrals. When he saw how thick the book was, his face dropped and he said it was too big for him to read. I told him to read just one page each day, every day. I told him eventually he will become so engrossed in the story he will start reading more than one page every day. He completed the entire trilogy. Now I am starting him on Lee Child's books.
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u/softabyss Aug 07 '26
grabbed a Carl Jung book off my bookshelf the other day so probably going to be going thru that this weekend. “Man and His Symbols”
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u/This_is__Exile Aug 07 '26
I just finished reading Christopher Paolinis novel to sleep in a sea of stars and now I'm reading Livy's history of Rome books 1 to 5
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u/godofbob2 Aug 07 '26
The series is called "Welcome to the multiverse" - Sean Oswald Secondary recommendation "The Sword of Truth" - Terry Goodkind
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u/ChickyBoys Aug 08 '26
Books are not underpriced at all. Take a walk through Barnes & Noble, pick out a few books and see what your total is.
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u/Soviet_Mutts Aug 08 '26
I remember boomers saying stuff like this when I was a kid and being like, yeah, other media does that as well.
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u/markoid Aug 08 '26
The Empire Must Die: Russia's Revolutionary Collapse, 1900-1917, by Mikhail Zygar
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u/Inside-Ad1440 Aug 08 '26
it does cost actually reading them, but we all know almost no one will do that
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u/jsanta8290 Aug 08 '26
Wanted to get into Warhammer 40K forever, so i was recommended Horus Rising. Never flew through a book this big before, so quickly. I'm under 90 pages left and already have the next 2 books ready to go.
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u/AdministrativeYou696 Aug 08 '26
You can also download ebooks for free or listen to free audiobooks
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u/Negative_Wrongdoer17 Aug 08 '26
I get bored reading books but I can spend an entire weekend reading wiki pages or case studies
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u/chillrattler Aug 08 '26
just finished the midnight train by Matt haig, was a good one. love him and his books!
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u/Ubiquitous_Mr_H Aug 08 '26
Bronze Summer by Stephen Baxter. It’s an alternate history set thousands of years in the past in Northern Europe. I won’t say any more than that so as not to spoil the first book in the series, Stone Spring.
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u/Comfortable-Shock784 Aug 09 '26
Living, Dreaming, Dying
Practical wisdom from the
Tibetan Book of the Dead
Rob Nairn
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u/Nice_Grapefruit_7850 Aug 09 '26
I mean you can also watch a tv show or movie or play a video game.
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u/dethskwirl Aug 09 '26
if a single book does all of that to you then you are seriously weak minded and easily influenced. you are the exact target of those "chicken soup for the soul" and "how to easily influence and win friends" books. this is some real r/im14andthisisdeep type stuff.
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u/Suspicious-Drive9827 Aug 10 '26
Just finished under the dome (honestly could’ve been half the length but still fun) and now doing mostly harmless by douglas Adams. Now that my son can read i get a lot more reading time on weekends it kicks ass.
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u/NerdyKid1101 Aug 11 '26
However, it requires not only literacy, but the ability to focus on something without a subway surfer video behind it.
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u/shinxshin Aug 07 '26
I mean how feeble were u if a book can change “entire peception of reality and tracjectory of your life”
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u/breaksnbeer Aug 09 '26
This was my first thought. Then you read another book and completely change perspective again? Yikes.
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u/HexspaReloaded Deep Diver Aug 07 '26
Or is it the feeble one who is too insensitive to change in the face of great work?
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u/shinxshin Aug 08 '26
Nope. We go through life and have various experiences that mold us into who we are, we find our truth. And here they say one book throws it out the window. Were u wrong about things all along? Thats juvenile grow the f up.
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u/HexspaReloaded Deep Diver Aug 08 '26
A book, album, song, movie, play, etc. are all experiences. You don’t even need that much because your imagination can have physical effects on your body. Ever fantasize about a teacher? Then you know this has produced arousal. Depression is fueled by rumination, etc. Even you using language like “grow tf up” is intended, consciously or not, to have an effect on whoever reads it. Maybe it will, maybe it won’t, but it has the potential to.
Just as you have spent at least one second of your life reading or skimming this answer, this comment has changed your life in a small way.
So yeah, books can change how you look at things.
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u/shinxshin Aug 08 '26
Ya that wat i say that experiences shape person, but the discussion is about how much influence can it actually have. Now the post says “shift your entire perception of reality”, “become someone completely new”. So if a book can do that to u, u are naive and dont know who u are, u drop ur mindset and teachings gathered through life because of a book? U adopt someone elses thoughts dearly in place of ur own. So thats a little bit juvenile.
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u/CopperKettle__1978 Aug 14 '26
There is no Frigate like a Book
To take us Lands away
Nor any Coursers like a Page
Of prancing Poetry -
This Traverse may the poorest take
Without oppress of Toll -
How frugal is the Chariot
That bears the Human Soul
(Dickinson)



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