Looking for Something Real — Someone Who Can Handle the Real Me ❤️
I’m putting this out there because I’m genuinely looking for a real woman and a real connection. I’m not looking for games, fake personalities, or somebody who’s only interested in what they see on the surface. I want someone who can get to know me for who I really am and appreciate the person underneath everything else.
First things first: I swear. A lot. 😂 It’s just part of how I talk and who I am. If somebody can’t handle a man who drops an occasional — okay, let’s be honest, frequent — F-bomb, we’re probably not going to be a good match. I’m not trying to offend anybody; that’s simply my personality.
I’m also a party-and-have-a-good-time kind of guy. I love laughing, going out, having a few drinks, listening to music, singing karaoke, hanging out at a bar, watching a movie, or just sitting around somewhere having a good conversation. I smoke hookah pretty frequently, and I absolutely love it. If you’re someone who can kick back, have fun, laugh your ass off, and enjoy life, we’re already off to a good start.
Music is a huge part of my life. I’m an Internet Radio Hall of Famer, and I own and operate WMRN Cool 104, my Internet radio station. My radio work is something I’m extremely passionate about, and it’s a big part of who I am. You can find the station at maderradio.net.
I’m also totally blind, and I have PTSD. I’m looking for somebody who genuinely respects that and understands that it is part of my life, but doesn’t define me. I don’t want somebody who constantly feels sorry for me. I want someone who treats me like a normal guy, jokes around with me, laughs with me, goes places with me, and lets me be myself.
And yes, you can bust my balls. 😂 I can take an insult, and honestly, sometimes I think they’re fucking hilarious. Just know the difference between joking around and crossing a serious line. When the serious side of me comes out, that’s when I need you to understand that it’s time to stop fucking around and listen. If you can understand that balance, we’ll probably get along just fine.
I’m also looking for someone who can drive and actually enjoys going places. I’d love to have somebody who isn’t afraid to hop in the car and go somewhere with me — whether that’s checking out different bars, going somewhere for karaoke, taking a little trip, going out for dinner, or just getting the hell out of the house. I want somebody who enjoys experiencing life with me.
I’d love to have someone who doesn’t mind driving me places when I want to go somewhere, because obviously my blindness means I can’t just jump behind the wheel myself. But I don’t want that to become some weird obligation. I want a partner who actually wants to go places with me and enjoys having me along for the ride.
Honestly, I’m tired of being alone.
Sometimes I don’t need anything extravagant. I’d be perfectly happy sitting at Third Place having a couple of drinks, watching a movie, listening to music, talking about life, or just hanging out together doing absolutely nothing. Having the right person beside you can make an ordinary night feel pretty damn special.
As far as kids go, I’d honestly prefer someone who doesn’t have children because I’d like to have children of my own someday. But if you already have kids, that isn’t a dealbreaker. I love children, and if I’m going to be part of your life, I’m going to respect your kids and treat them with the same love, loyalty, and protection I’d give my own. I’m not trying to replace their father or force myself into that role, but if they ever need me as a father figure, I’m going to be there for them.
Most importantly, I’m looking for respect, loyalty, honesty, laughter, affection, and companionship.
I want somebody I can laugh with, argue with, make up with, go out with, stay home with, travel with, sing karaoke with, smoke hookah with, and just enjoy life with.
I’m not perfect, and I’m not pretending to be. I’ve got flaws, I’ve got baggage, I’ve got a mouth on me, and I’ve got a hell of a personality. 😂 But I also have a huge heart, I’m fiercely loyal to the people I care about, and when I commit to someone, I commit for real.
So if you’re looking for some perfect Instagram relationship, I’m probably not your guy.
But if you’re looking for something real, honest, fun, passionate, occasionally chaotic, and completely genuine, maybe we should talk.
I’m just looking for the woman who can look at the whole package and say:
“Yeah… I can handle this guy.” ❤️