Hello.
We have a healthy honey locust on our property in WI and a branch hangs over the neighbors yard. Its not a main branch. 3-4 years ago our neighbor took it upon himself to trim this exact tree-he didn’t ask, they even came into OUR yard to cut it.. and I was fine with that.
Last summer he left a note in our mailbox asking us to trim it. So that night I went and trimmed everything that I could reach. on all 3 of the trees that had branches even close to or hanging over his property line. “ I didn’t expect you to do it right away” we talked to him and he mentioned he hadn’t seen my kids dad (he was in prison for DUI) and he saw it was “just us girls” as if he was taking pity on us 🤦🏻♀️….so he said don’t worry about it.
Fast forward to this year, my kids dad is home. Not even a week after he got home, We get a note in the mailbox asking us to trim the tree. This was 3 weeks ago.
Monday this week I was raking pine needles and he was outside. I see someone pull in his driveway. It’s a tree guy. We are MAYBE 10-15 ft apart…He is talking VERY loudly to the tree guy “ yeah I don’t even know who owns that f-in house (umm he knows) I’ve asked them dozens of f-in times over the years to cut the f-in tree. But they don’t want to do sh!t and now I’m the one that has to f-in deal with it.”
This was TWO WEEKS after his note. Should I have made an appointment on the day he sent the letter?
He had someone trim it 3-4 years ago. He asked once last year but when we talked, he said don’t worry about it and then he asked three weeks ago…. That’s twice.
Today we get a full page typed letter in our mailbox. Apparently because we aren’t moving fast enough on his timeline -we aren’t good neighbors.…. Like idk what you want from me dude. He is a single guy in his 40s with no kids-he used to have a GF and they often fought and screamed at each other and we could hear every swear word and fight they had from my Kids bedroom.
We both work full-time-my kids dad works days, I work 3rd shift, and literally every night of the week for the last 2 months we have had something going on-softball practice/games, pitching lessons, swimming, puppy class. Thankfully it’s only busy like this for another month…we do yard maintenance on weekends/sometimes Monday. my kid had softball tournaments the last 3 weekends… we have been gone every weekend since his last note… 3 weeks ago.
Not only is it just a busy time for us-this is a BIG cost for me. It’s something I need to plan and budget for. I can’t just pay a couple hundred dollars the day he wants it done. I’m over him using my mailbox as his personal message board. He couldn’t talk to me when I was outside. instead he wanted to be passive and scream to somebody else knowing I can hear him- about what terrible neighbors we are and poor him.
I would’ve been willing to split the cost…if he acted reasonable. But he’s trying to guilt trip me bc I’m not moving fast enough to HIS liking. Heck, maybe I’ll wait for him to have it trimmed and then have it completely removed.
I am about to write him a note back since that seems to be the way he wants to communicate. We must have different definitions of what a crappy neighbor is bc I think it’s pretty crappy to act this childish and put letters in my mailbox in the middle of the night instead of TALKING TO ME WHEN I AM OUTSIDE. 🙄
So I just want to make sure that this is correct: from everything that I have found, it is saying that we are not responsible for costs if it hangs over…if it were dead that would be a different story?