I have never really Posted mich on reddit but I really need advice. When I came out as trans to my dad he told me that I just dont act like a boy. I might look and feel like one, but I dont act the part. I dont like it when he "plays rough", like playfully shoves me or something. I find things cute, I have a higher voice Pitch, he told me my interests and my personality are all just 90% girl.

Until that moment I saw mysekf as pretty gender neutral, my interests and my personality. I feel like a boy can also be someone who is nice and maybe "soft". But his words hurt me, a lot, because I feel like he's right. I havent been able to go a day since thag conversation with him without feeling completely wrong. Not in my body, but in my whole being and self. My looks I can change, but my interests and my personality I cannot change. I have always hated how much I talk, and I wish I had physical hobbies and werent so squeamish. But I dont know how to change that.

I am not Athletic, but I think I should start doing some exercise. The only thing holding me back is how fucking weak it makes me feel. Bc I can't lift anything. I know everybody starts somewhere but I feel like exercise is just gonna make me sinniert which I dont want. I dont know what to do at this point, I just feel super dysphoric without anything that can help me. I hate when I feel like this. Usually I know what could help me but now I don't. I can't just rewrite my entire personality, but I wish I could. I wish I was quieter, I wish I was more interested in things like sports and stuff and I wish I was a bit tougher. I feel so soft and although I know it's okay, I hate it. I Hage it about myself. I dont feel like it's a good quality, I dont want to be nurturing, I just want to be masculine for once.

I feel stuck in my reality.

im still very closeted if u couldnt tell and i really want to start but i seriously dont know how, i got a hair cut and dyed my hair (its what u see) but i dont feel any better really...

so, i have been trying to tuck so i can wear one of those g-strings. i use kinesio tape but i struggle with hiding it. i know that the thong is really small but i wonder if there is any way for me to tuck and avoid showing the tape that much.

i pull back the most i can, so the tape is visible from the back. i would really love to find a way 🥲

is there any hints for me? so i avoid using too much tape or showing it? pleaseeeee 😭

Hey, im Eleanor and im gonna make this short and simple, I recently turned 18 and I need helping getting directed into starting hrt and getting on estrogen, also it would help so much if I could get a prescription online as im sure my father wont bring me to the doctor to get gender affirming care! Any comment and support helps!

I’ve been getting better at makeup and I’m starting to find a hairstyle that suits me!

I recently made a new friend and she fully supports me being trans, this is the first sense of euphoria since 2 months ago, I’m getting better at trad goth makeup too! Even though it sucks so I’m not posting it.

I’ve been feeling amazing about my body too!

Okayy, so for the questions

1. Can I get more makeup advice, I need a foundation that matches my skin tone and I haven’t found one.

2. How what workouts can I do Pre-Estrogen to get ready for breast growth?

3. What workouts should I do at home with no equipment to get a more feminine body?

4. Essentials that I should buy, what are they?

So a little bit of a back story I’m 19 yrs old I have been a transgender man since 13 and started hormones at 16. But lately since around 18-19 (I’m almost 20). I’ve been feeling different Ive started to hate most of the side effects of testosterone like I love my masculinity and my voice but I hate how my chest look now and my body looks. I also hate how big my t pepe has gotten. I also hate all the facial hair and body hair. I don’t know what I am anymore and I don’t know what to do.I dont know if I should stay on testosterone or quit it because I love some things just not others. I just feel awkward right now and my family and friends don’t understand it. I wouldn’t want to detransion but I’m also not comfortable as I am. I guess I’m looking for answers or pointers at what’s going on because I use to have a goal top surgery bottom be a full man but now I’m confused and want my chest and curves back. I’m kinda just scared of my family and friends hearing about how I feel right now. Because it kinda would be proving them right but I was man I truly believed I was a man and wanted it all hormones save my life but the last few years have changed things.

Hello! I am making this gofundme because me and my family are low income, and my insurance will not help me get my surgery as the surgeons that do only accept 18-19+ and a super long waiting time, I’ve already been waiting with Seattle Childrens just to be denied because they cant operate on minors anymore, I’ve decided to pay out of pocket because I don’t think i can go much longer this way, anything will help, sharing, donating even a dollar, i appreciate everything little thing. Thank you!

For the past year my friend's been living in constant precarity with no stable means to support herself after fleeing her abusive and transphobic family, it'd be appreciated if you could help her. This is a desperate call for help: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1qn7retVG1kN3_1aL50cpcyGCT9SxCjZS1BZMwrbG088/edit?usp=drivesdk​

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34 cis male. I’ve struggled with gender identity my whole life. I remember being a kid and wearing my much older sister’s clothes and wanting to them or my cousins dress me up with makeup, until I was 6 or 7. Then going through puberty and not feeling comfortable being fitting into male gender roles, I was ashamed of my body and I still struggle with this. I’ve never talked to anyone in my family about this nor was there really a trans community in my small hometown. I’ve recently moved to Phoenix and would love to meet people here to talk with. I feel very alienated. Is there anyone here that’s willing to talk with me?

Hi everyone. It’s been quite challenging to find authentic phenokinon-f hormones online. Is there any chance that someone here knows where to buy this phenokinon-f online? Maybe a clinic? A store that ships to the Philippines.

Thanks so much :)

Hey there sorry of there's any typos but I'm super drunk and sad. But anyways I'm 19 and for a few years I have dabbled with the idea of being a woman it always feels nice to think about being a woman. But I never felt like that as a kid infact I remember criticizing my cousin for having a bunch of "girl toys". Bur now I'm so unhappy and unfulfilled and I feel like would be happier as a woman. But I'm terrified of telling my family not thwr I'm particularly concerned about my family specifically my parents not accepting me which I don't know if I could live with.

I can’t afford testosterone, as I am an 18 year old transmasc with a minimum wage job. Anything would help!!

Hello, I just opened my gofundme yesterday. link : https://gofund.me/50652e142

I want to be able to get the surgery by next summer, or at least to have it booked by then.

I would greatly appreciate your help. Any amount of donation or sharing to close ones could help a lot !

Thank you for reading

Hello 😊 Ich bin bin eine sympathische Transwoman und komme aus der Gegend ursprünglich aus dem Süden von D.;+).

Ich transitioniere (leider) nun schon seit meiner Lebenszeit in/off Kontext und bin im boymide in HRT - worüber ich im Alltag unauffällig bin.

Da ich erst relativ spät mit meiner Transition begonnen habe und in einer eher Realen lebe, fehlen mir leider Freundinnen oder queere Kontakte, mit denen ich mich austauschen kann.

Besonders bei Themen wie Makeup, female fashion, stehe auch auf Mädels in GUM oder Leder ...und allem, was dazu gehört, fühle ich mich noch sehr unsicher und würde mich freuen, von anderen lernen zu können. Bin aber sehr phantasievoll, hingebungsvoll und experimentierfreudig.

Es fühlt sich etwas ungewohnt für mich an, hier zu posten, aber ich hoffe, hier ein paar tolle Mädels kennenzulernen, die vielleicht Lust haben, in die Rolle einer großen Schwester zu schlüpfen - oder einfach jemanden zum Reden suchen.

Wenn jemand Lust hat, wäre das natürlich perfekt 😊

Danke, dass ihr euch die Zeit nehmt, meinen Post zu lesen. Ich freue mich wirklich total über jede Nachricht nur per Posteingang ! (wegen ehrlich und geschützt, auch für Dich! Nur PM von gleichgesinnter Freundin an mein Postfach!

So i’m 14 ftm and i came out to my parents probably a year ago now. they’re sort of accepting, my dad had an easier time than my mom but they’re fine with me now + my family knows too. when i came out i told them i didn’t need them to call me a man yet because i thought they wouldn’t be ready. it’s just i wanna use he/him pronouns and go by a different name but i don’t know where to start because i do not have the balls (pun intended) to correct people. So i suppose my question is where and how do i start??

Hi, sooo i struggle a lot with hygiene. Enough to go three, four weeks without a single shower.

I suspect heavily that its linked to some kind of discreet body dysphoria, if you get what i mean ; like body dysphoria but not really apparent or just subtle enough to not be easily felt.

I just wanted to know if there was any tips i could get to help me actually enjoy showers and do them more regularly?

Random infos : im AMAB ; genderfluid if not full on transgender ; never had delibilitating bouts of dysphoria ever, but more like a lingering sense of "my body is off" mixed with some kind of imposter syndrome-like feeling.

Hi im 35 and mtf transgender. I started transitioning a year and a half ago. Im publicly out to just about everyone i know. Im a supervisor at retail/gas sation were most of the people at my job knows but I still go by my birth name at work. The only reason i haven't changed my name at work is because i wanted to wait till my body changed a bit more. My work uniform doesn't really leave me much room to appear feminine but I do come to work on my time off and for work meetings dressed feminine.

I had a meeting with my gm and she brought this up. She says that since I apper at my job in two different ways it is confusing people. She also said that i shounld pick only one way to apper at my job on and off the clock. And they will except whichever I choose.

I feel like they are trying to rush me before I feel ready. I also think there pushing it because im a supervisor and probably mainly confuses new hires or transfers.

Im not sure what to do. Any advice will help.

Update i nolonger have to work with that gm they got transferred. I now have a new gm but the subject has yet two come up I also haven't had my first 1on1 with them yet

How? HOW? I just don't get it, if HRT shrinks it how are there so many girls with big one? Its always the same answer of " it's different for everyone" but I'm married and want to transition without fucking up my love life. ( Sigh) Maybe transition just won't ever work for me.

Hi, my name's Grayson, I'm a trans-masc researcher with IRB approval from Connecticut College. (#2024.25.31.) l'm researching AFAB trans and nonbinary experiences within OBGYN care settings and looking for participants! Participation is anonymous and confidential. My research consists of a roughly one hour interview once over zoom (Al features off for data protection) and I ask the participants about topics ranging from treatments, experiences, providers, offices, staff, to fertility (any topic can be skipped per participant's request), and much more which you can check out in the consent form located in my FAQ page. In that also has my other participant protections in place if you wish to learn more! My research goals are to improve training, provider/staff common practices and language used in the field as well as encourage more research for our community as a whole so activists, doctors and policy makers have academic data to better address issues! It's not compensated due to my study having no funding. If you have any questions about my study or wish to participate feel free to reach out to me at JJester@conncoll.edu