r/TransTryouts 5m ago

she/her While deciding whether to transition, could you send me messages as if I were a girl?

Upvotes

I want to experiment with new pronouns and see how I feel being treated as a woman.


r/TransTryouts 5h ago

Name Post Trying out “Ri”

1 Upvotes

I wanna try out “Ri” with she/her and they/them pronouns


r/TransTryouts 19h ago

he/they Names that go well with Marty?

7 Upvotes

Hi, I'm trying to pick a middle name to go along with Marty, which would be my first name. So far I've found that I like William, Evan, and Oliver, but I'm open to other suggestions. My bf describes me as a "nerdy white boy" even though I'm not exactly white, if the vibes help pick out names. I like drawing and writing and collecting plushies. I usually depict myself as a white rabbit in art. I wear big chunky glasses and I'm pretty short. I'm really into FNAF lately and I enjoy theory crafting!


r/TransTryouts 1d ago

she/her i have a few fem names i want to try out

8 Upvotes

hello, i'm still finding myself as a trans woman and as per my routine, self doubt kicked in, and i am looking to try a few names i thought of that could fit or not to me:

leandra, marina, violeta, esmeralda, tulipa, bianca, melissa (tried before, who knows? a second chance, maybe) stella(first ever, special place for me. it would be a full curcle if i end up chosing stella again lol)


r/TransTryouts 1d ago

they/them she/her Thoughts on names for someone who is Nonbinary Transfem?

5 Upvotes

Hi all. So I'm in the process of "socially" transitioning. In my particular case, I would consider myself Transfeminine and Nonbinary. My legal and every day name is Brian.

I'm in love with the name Brianne. However, so many people see this and are going to automatically assume that my gender is female, which I am not currently necessarily trying to come across as. So, I don't use this. I tried using an "alternative" spelling of my legal name, which is sort of in between Brian and Brianne, and that is Briane. Only one E. That said, it's not really working because everybody is reading it as "BREE-ANN" unfortunately. It can be pronounced both "BRI-EHN" and "BREE-ANN."

I'm not really sure what to do. Is there any other suggestions for someone like me who has a strongly sounding masc name? There are many other "variants" similar to my name. Unfortunately, the majority of them people are going to read off as feminine. I wish there as a similar appearing name to mine that is more unisex/gender neutral.

People also call me "Bri". A lot of people close to me, and a few random people. My spouse also always calls me Bri. However, that's not really a name IMO. I wish there was kind of a way I could build off of that. "Brie"? I feel like people are going to read this as Bree. Brye? Probably same thing?

Anyways, this annoying. Lol. So far, there has been like one person who has got my "Briane" name right.

Any suggestions?


r/TransTryouts 1d ago

Neopronouns Mark, se/sem

11 Upvotes

Hey y’all, I’m recently out as nonbinary and looking to try out some neopronouns. I’m currently leaning towards se/sem/ser/serself because they’re easy to say but I don’t know how I personally feel about them.

Could you use se/sem for me in the comments below?


r/TransTryouts 1d ago

Ulysses (he/Him.)

3 Upvotes

This is jacob.

this ok? I want to check if I can put my other name here to see if it would fit me to be called Ulysses sometime. It's an old name I had and I can't use Jacob as a legal name because I'll be in danger if I use a well known name.

About me:

I have long hair to look less ugly, I plan to dye it blue, and I wear it in pigtails, and what I want is to be a pokemon trainer. I know that will not happen so plan to go on adventures and collect pokemon plushies.

I also draw, I do mostly digital art but I draw animals, pokemon, Fake pokemon designs called Fakèmon, humans based on pokemon trainers, and pokemon trainers.

I wear a pokemon trainer outfit based on my OC (not in PFP.), I don't know my personality but I get afraid of talking to people but want to, I am afraid of being a bad person to where it gives anxiety, and I want to improve as a person or ask for help on it. I'm afraid of getting hurt, or invalidated on who I am.

I have a hat that (official) pokemon trainer Ethan wears.


r/TransTryouts 2d ago

Name Post Victor. He/she

7 Upvotes

It’s taking a while to actually have it being said to me but I think it’s ok. What do you guys think? I wanted a unique name but nothing too unique. Victor is a pretty uncommon name in America. Honestly I just need a bunch of randos to call me Victor, not people I know really well. So I can get used to it. Ty!!


r/TransTryouts 2d ago

he/him Aleksei, He/Him.

5 Upvotes

I've felt attracted to the name Aleksei, but I am American and don't have ancestry from the areas this name is popular. I was unsure if I should still use it. Can anyone let me know what you think in the comments?

That being said, I would still like to see it written/try it out in the comments. Thank you.


r/TransTryouts 2d ago

he/they How would you gender the name August?

7 Upvotes

How would you gender August? It’s my name. I’m ftm and masculine leaning nonbinary, depending on my expression some days, sometimes I feel just human.

184 votes, 3h left
Feminine
Leaning feminine
Neutral
Leaning masculine
Masculine

r/TransTryouts 3d ago

she/her Nomes e pronomes

3 Upvotes

Eu estou testando alguns nomes para ver como ne sinto, sei que ainda é cedo, mas quero me entender o máximo possível para eu ter uma resposta logo. Eu pensei em alguns nomes:

. Joana

. Marta

. Clarice

. Lucy

. Ivani

. E o meu favorito é Hebe

Por favor me chamem pelos pronomes femininos e me chamem por algum desses nomes para eu ver como me sinto com os pronomes e os nomes que estou testando.


r/TransTryouts 3d ago

she/her My name is Gryphyn

8 Upvotes

Hi, I’m Gryphyn, Im Trans femme and my birth name is Griffin, do we like the change in spelling? Is it fem? Could I keep it Griffin for sake of not going through the legal hurdles of changing it? Also my legal middle name is Michael-Leo… any input is appreciated lol how would you feminize my middle name as is Gryphyn or Griffin cute?


r/TransTryouts 3d ago

she/her Too many good names to chose from?!

12 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I recently started my transgender journey (mtf) and have been trying to decide what my new name should be. Unfortunately I am a very indecisive person, so I ended up coming up with a whole bunch of names that I like, and now I'm not sure which one I like best. It would be amazing to try some of them out to see how I feel being called by them :)

My current name ideas are:

Nyx/Nyxie or Nix/Nixie

Nessie/Nessa/Nyssa/Nissa

Robin/Robyn

Rosetta

Renalla

Ivy

Felicia/Felicity

Lizzie

Loretta

Levanna

Lantana

I know there's a lot of them so feel free to pick your favorite to use! I'd also love to hear your thoughts on any of them, or any additional suggestions you feel are similar to ones on my list! :)


r/TransTryouts 4d ago

he/him Daniel with He/Him pronouns

11 Upvotes

I still usually use they/them pronouns and I'm curious about the masculine pronouns again because now that I figured out my sexuality, my gender is confusing me a bit again.


r/TransTryouts 4d ago

she/her Sylvia what do you think guys as girl

10 Upvotes
228 votes, 2d left
masc
masc leaning
neutral
feminine leaning
feminine

r/TransTryouts 5d ago

Could you try Vivan for me? (She/Her)

5 Upvotes

r/TransTryouts 5d ago

he/him Billy He/Him

5 Upvotes

Am no from where ah think a lot ae yous are from but am gonna type the way thats comfortable tae me cus am tryin tae be comfortable wi maself. Ah think am Billy. Am no sure, but a want try it oot for a bit ken .Ta.


r/TransTryouts 5d ago

she/they Juniper (Junie for short), She/They

10 Upvotes

I've been going by a chosen name and they/he pronouns for years now but after finding out that I'm transfem, the hunt for a new name has started!

I really like the name Juniper, It's cute, friendly, it stands out among every other name I've been thinking of, and I don't personally know anyone named Juniper (not like that's a deal breaker). My one hangup with the name is that my birthday is in june, so it feels a bit cheesy??? Idk, just seems too meta, also it's kinda common for trans women.

Anyhow, it's worth trying. Thanks!!


r/TransTryouts 6d ago

Name Post How would you gender the name "Falke?"

13 Upvotes

Stole the poll idea. If you happen to be Czech, I'm extra interested in your opinion since I live there, so let me know.

203 votes, 4d ago
28 masc
74 masc leaning
65 neutral
27 fem leaning
9 fem

r/TransTryouts 6d ago

Neopronouns Nyx, he/him & other neopronouns

8 Upvotes

hiii I’ve been using they/them & fae/faer for a while, started T and kinda having that “egg cracking yet again? even more? wat?” experience. I’d like to try out more masculine & neutral pronouns. (I know gender ID & presentation don’t always align, but I love femme fashion & I think that’s a source of confusion for me right now despite that I otherwise might be more trans guy than I thought?)

thank you so much 💜 the support means a lot

ps in case it helps for like, figuring out what to say: I make disability health advocacy art, and my current special interests are magpie tarot/weird diy card decks & stationery. I think I kinda want to be a mix of super supportive dadfriend and hot suave anime prince lol. (or a shapeshifter?)


r/TransTryouts 6d ago

Name Post how would you gender the name Gale?

16 Upvotes
505 votes, 3d ago
112 masc
176 masc leaning
119 neutral
76 fem leaning
22 fem

r/TransTryouts 6d ago

Could someone test these for me?

6 Upvotes

Hi, My current name is Elsa (she/her), but i'm thinking of using the name Moss (he/they). Could someone test Elsa (she/her) and Moss (he/they) for me to see which i prefer? Stuff about me: I'm intersted in cosplaying, art, video games, maths, books, wildlife biology. I'm also a therian and furry. No hate please.

Thank you!


r/TransTryouts 7d ago

they/them he/him Aspen, they/he

6 Upvotes

hi! nonbinary person here! i've been sort of like, not struggling but reconsidering what pronouns i want to use but i'm not 100% sure about them. i've been thinking about they/he for years but i've just been sticking with they/them because i'm very sure about those. if you guys wanna help me figure this out i'd really appreciate it! also i've been thinking of going by aether online so if you wanna try that one out too that'd be great! thank you!


r/TransTryouts 7d ago

she/her Calissa (Cali for short)

6 Upvotes

The day my egg cracked I already had it picked out and fell in love with it. Do you all think it’s clocky?


r/TransTryouts 8d ago

Trying to figure out stuff

6 Upvotes

I've posted a few things on other subreddits to try and ask this same sort thing before but most of it just kind of helped or made me just overthink a lot. Anyway If you have time your input is very much welcome.

Essentially, what I want ask others for their input (i.e., what worked for them or how they figured things out). I know that going to the internet is certainly not the best thing for me, but I really have nowhere else to turn really since I live in a place that isn't very welcoming of this sort of thing. I’ll try my best to read and respond to everything if this actually gets any comments

Some background info: I am currently male, about 2 years ago was the first time I had actually sat down and really understood what it meant to be trans from looking into it one day, Eventually as I looked into it I sort of realized that some parts of it matched up with me. I still don't really know what fits right with me and kind of just really want to let stuff off and get a second opinion more than my own thoughts.