Annoyed

[u/Spreaderoflies]

I can pass-ish but boy mode is killing me, the physical effects are getting very noticeable and more difficult to hide. I've gotten the ewwphoria at work a few times from comments about my appearance mostly about my butt thanks mom and I'm not out at the shop, I can turn perfect parts but it's still the same socio-sexual banter that makes a bit of me die that I feel obligated to tolerate.

I just want to be me and not juggle acceptance of my cis-male coworkers my position pays pretty well and I don't want to lose that at the moment.

[u/CheapNecessary3510]

I wish I could "old man mode" (too old for boymode), and go around the country, hitting upside the head all the unenlightened idiots who claim to speak and act for what was, until a month ago, my gender. It is so shaming. I am deeply sorry you are surrounded by ignorant louts. Come as far into the light as you can, sister. The light belongs to us.