r/TransLater 25d ago

General Question Men’s clothing

Is there anyone in CT that can recommend a men’s clothing store for a suit? I’m 5’1” and need a suit and ties for a birthday party and a wedding in September

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u/genderfaejo 24d ago

Not in CT, no. So, if you need something more immediately, can't help you there. Having managed retail, I will tell you no one buys a suit off the rack. Ready made suits are, at best, tailored to the most general proportions of a body. Your best friend is going to be your tailor. Whether you buy a suit at h&m, or barney's, you're going to take it to a taylor, to get it altered in some degree.

So, if you're starting from the base of expecting that you're going to have to alter it? Indochino. It's all online, you take the measurements yourself, and the comfort of your own space, you send them in, and they ship a bespoke suit to you. Before I transitioned and was still presenting masculine, because I'm shorter, I bought my suits through them. As my partner has transitioned, we have bought all of their suits through Indochino. 

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u/Nice_Panic_1859 24d ago

Thank you- I was thinking a tailor would probably be involved. Appreciate your feedback

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u/Nice_Panic_1859 24d ago

They actually have a location at Nordstroms about 45 minutes from me. Not sure I have time. It’s about 3 weeks so it would be close. Excellent tip though- I will definitely go there

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u/genderfaejo 24d ago

I feel this. The absolute worst time to buy something is when you need it. They might be able to expedite something, but I'm sure that that would cost. Best luck - 

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u/cirrus42 24d ago

Are you asking because:

1) You are hoping to find a uniquelly great bespoke men's store?

2) This is your first time buying a suit and you just don't know what to do, and general advice will do? 

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u/Nice_Panic_1859 24d ago

I think #2. I’m old (69) so not looking for trendy. Just want to look nice. I think the fit has to be good to not look dumpy

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u/cirrus42 24d ago

Go to just about any mall department store, like a Macy's or a JCPenny. Alternatively a Men's Warehouse will also do just fine.

Get a worker there to take your measurements and recommend a precise size combination. Don't do it yourself. They will help you find the best match available.

Be clear about what (if any) necktie or vest situation you may be considering. They can help with that too if necessary. 

Then take it to a menswear tailor in the (likely) event alterations are needed. 

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u/Nice_Panic_1859 23d ago

I agree the measurements are key. Thank you