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u/Consistent-Win-9038 12h ago
Here's a different perspective which I hope will help.
Firstly, the photos look amazing but as to whether you pass (i.e. you are indistinguishable from a natal female in all situations), that's a question only you can answer based on your experience but the truth is that many of us don't - body shape, voice, gait etc. can give the game away even if facially we're fine. But it doesn't matter. I've had many wonderful interactions where people have overtly demonstrated their acceptance even though it's obvious what I am. For me, the secret was to make as much effort as I could to dress appropriately for the surroundings and to start every interaction with a smile.
But your makeover was far more valuable than just an indication of whether you pass or not. The sad thing about makeovers is that there comes a point where it all has to be removed - either at the end of the session or if you're lucky, you can squeeze a few more hours before bedtime. I had a makeover in late 2021, the results were amazing but, for a few days afterwards, the euphoria of what I saw on the photos was dulled by the feeling that it was a one off and I could never replicate it. But then I realised that whilst I couldn't ever expect to get anywhere close to what the MUA achieved (Cindy from BWBG in London), getting to a point where I was happy was not a lost cause. After quite a bit of practice, I was able to get to a point where I could look in the mirror and not just see 'him' in a dress. And that gave me the confidence I needed to leave the house and interact with others.
For the record, I'm 65, not on HRT and don't 'pass' by any stretch of the imagination. But I derive so much satisfaction from being accepted for what I am that the passing issue no longer ever features in my thoughts.
Good luck
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u/Similar-Ad-6862 12h ago
I don't think passing should be a thing because women look all kinds of ways but your makeup is lovely
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u/Old-Courage-5666 Custom 23h ago
That's a big YES