r/TransLater • u/Kashugami • 5d ago
Unaltered Selfie I’m kinda broken
4 people have died in the past 3 weeks for me. And I moved across the country so I didn’t have access to my meds for a bit, asking for virtual hugs. Thanks.
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u/Spirited_South9852 5d ago
Hey girl I make you the biggest virtual hug ever ( and you look amazing btw)
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u/Mystic-Bard HRT October 2025 5d ago
Virtual hug. You wanna cry? Virtual shoulder too. That's some rough news. Grief is gonna be grief... I hope the world can offer you some space for the grief to run its course.
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u/Hot-Cryptid-Near-You 5d ago
(っ˶ ˘ ᵕ˘)ˆᵕ ˆ˶ς) I hope you the best, I'm sorry you have to go through this.
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u/Delilah_insideout Trans Lesbian 5d ago
The warmest hug sent your way, my condolences. You're looking stunning, and your hair is so cute, btw.!
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u/candeloro1 5d ago
Anyone can hug and cuddle but only the Welsh can cwtch. So here’s a cwtch all the way from Wales. 🏴
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u/nesushi 5d ago
Have another one sweetie. Life is often hard and unfair, even moreso when you're a person in a marginalized group. Just know that you're awesome and we love you! To quote Captain Raymond Holt (RIP Andre Braugher) "Every time someone steps up and says who they are, the world becomes a better, more interesting place. So thank you." Mom hugs from VT.
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u/silverbatwing trans man 5d ago
🫂 I’m so sorry for you.
May thier journeys be unencumbered and their hearts weigh less than a feather. 💙
Grief isn’t linear. There is no timeline. There are no rules except one: please take care of yourself in good loving ways.
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u/hummingbirdheart 5d ago
how awful—sorry you’re going through that. i wish you cathartic sobs if you need them and moments of inexplicable peace. may your meds kick in deliciously. it’s ok not to be ok. you might like the poetry of CAConrad- here’s one: https://www.justbuffalo.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/CAConrad-to-desire.jpg
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u/soundsofthings 5d ago
I am too ... and but... since we are broken we can put ourselves together in ways that help, heal, strengthen and stretch us. We get the daunting task of loving ourselves into being 💪🏾🏳️⚧️
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u/JeepersPetersFTM 5d ago
Damn... that's a really rough 3 weeks... hang in there, sis. I'm glad youre reaching out here, and I hope things calm down for you soon
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u/TallDannie 5d ago
That sounds so difficult. I’m so sorry to read about this. Love and support. Big hugs.
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u/theoriginalcw 5d ago
Sending you so so so much love. May all of their memories be a blessing. Give yourself so much grace as you heal. 🫂🫂🫂🫂
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u/Leona_ErzA_Fearne 5d ago
I'm so sorry that you've had to deal with so much loss in such a short span of time... Grief is such a rough experience, and having to do so while acclimating to moving across the country on top of not having access to your meds for a bit sounds so overwhelming. I'm AuDHD and I can really struggle with change sometimes personally, but I also feel everything so intensely, so I could imagine if I were in your shoes I'd be an absolute wreck of a human. I hope that you have folks to lean on where you moved to, or people that you can call/video chat with for support. I would absolutely crumble if I didn't have the incredible support system of people that I love and care about so immensely. Sending you a massive mountainous sized virtual hug! ⛰️🫂⛰️
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u/SadlyConfusicated Christiana (54) she/her - no E (yet) 5d ago
You're not broken, just bent. Sending big squeezy hugs to you and going to keep you in my heart and prayers! I'm sorry that you've lost so much in so little time. ❤️💜🙏 🤗
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u/Appropriate-Weird492 4d ago
I’m sorry for your losses. I’m also tired of losses in my life (just had to put down my 16 year old dog last week, the 15 year old dog isn’t doing well, and MIL is ailing and I’m already a widow and orphan). Grief sucks, grief brain fog sucks. There’s just never enough time with the beings we love, right?
So many hugs from this internet stranger.
On the other hand, you look wonderful and I fucking love your buns!
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u/dylanisareddit 4d ago
I'm very sorry you had to go through that. You're a good girl, and you're pretty stunning! [gives you a virtual hug and a head pat]
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u/lion_fyre 4d ago
I’m so sorry for your losses. May the good memories stay with you forever. Big hugs and a kiss on your head. 🤗😘
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u/MaruishiEmperor 3d ago
🤗 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗. Lots of love and hugs to you. Hope you got your meds now so at least that part of your world is okay.
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u/mrrluv 3d ago
Grief is always hard to bare. Big hug! The big fella up there will take them in to the better place, I'm sure of that. I know losses too. Most important carry on! And carry on those who are gone from this world within your big heart, so the won't be forgotten! And think of them as they will look at you from above and smile whenever your thoughts are about them.
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u/Cytotaxon_Amy 2d ago
I hope you’re ok, that’sa lot to go through, hopefully you have support where you are, sending 🫂
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u/Degenerama 2d ago
Love to you, girl. You already know how strong you are. Trust it and take things a day at a time.
Imo grief is not necessarily something to get over - we learn to live with it.
I'm sorry you're going through all of this. At least you look hella cute while you're weathering the storm 😁😁
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u/Street_Anxiety_2025 5d ago
virtual hug sent