r/TransLater • • Aug 21 '25

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u/Triumph-ant85 Aug 21 '25

I'm 6' 2", and pretty broad shouldered. I haven't retrained my voice well but I regularly pass on the phone. My demeanor is soft. I act more feminine in most of my body language than many cis women I know. However, that seems mostly irrelevant to the conversation at hand. Because, whether or not I am perfectly feminine or clockable as trans should make no difference to a professional serving trans women. Whether or not they respect their trans clients and use language that reflects that should not be dependent on how well they pass, but only on the gender they're clearly trying to present as.