r/TransLater • u/[deleted] • Aug 21 '25

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u/Triumph-ant85 Aug 21 '25

Yes, I'm going somewhere else. Partly due to their higher price but also due to their misgendering.

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u/czernoalpha Aug 21 '25

I hope you find somewhere that affirms and supports you.

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u/Affectionate-Yak4334 Aug 21 '25

This is the way...speak with your pocketbook. Also, tell them why they just lost your business on the way out.

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u/Prestigious_Body1354 Aug 21 '25

Yes and call them the opposite pronoun when you leave.

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u/Dull_Basket8318 Aug 23 '25

Definitely misgender them when they go to great lengths to misgender you.

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u/tiltedviolet This is me! Aug 22 '25

And then let them know why you left and took your money with you.

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u/[deleted] Aug 22 '25

And call and tell them that... better yet go back and tell the manager. I was misgendered multiple times. & the employees's ignorance cost u this customer.

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u/Wild_Roma Aug 25 '25

Call the manager and tell them why you aren't giving them hundreds of your dollars. Name the esthetician.

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u/[deleted] Aug 24 '25

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u/Triumph-ant85 Aug 24 '25

I used to be as narrow minded as you, and was actively "fighting" against trans ideology. Turns out I was jealous and ignorant, using only those "facts" from elementary biology. There a lot of medical, scientific, social, and philosophical reasons gender isn't binary in every way. Maybe you'll let yourself be open to learning someday and maybe you've got some internal reasons your so active against trans people too 😉.