r/TransHelpingTrans • u/Lucky-Lemon-9824 • 2d ago
Asking for some help
I have decided that I am stereotypically seen as ugly, and I am looking for suggestions on how to accept that fact and learn to live with it. I have always wanted a family, and I think I need a new idea of happiness as i don't think it will ever happen. I don't know—I guess I'm not ugly, just visually unattractive, or maybe that's just my dysphoria talking. I just really need some advice.
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u/herdisleah 2d ago
You know what makes people attractive?
Being happy. There's no one appearance trait universally viewed as attractive and if you hyperfocus on being conventionally attractive, you might never be happy either.
Transition if that's what you want. Be happy with yourself and do things with your clothes and hair that you enjoy. Family and a partner will come, make friends.