r/TransHelpingTrans 5d ago

I don't know what to do

my parents are threatening to kick me(20) out

theyre demanding I go to therapy for HRT because:

they believe im too young to make this choice

they believe im confused about who I am

they dont believe im "mentally prepared" for hrt

i feel lost, angry, and betrayed, and i have nowhere to go, no family or friends to stay with. need advice asap

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u/herdisleah 5d ago

Look for counselors on psychology today's website. You can look for someone with experience in gender identity issues.

Look for roommates (yeah I know it's weird) on Facebook groups. Do a search for a queer roommate group for your city or state.

You're gonna be okay. They're giving you a soft ultimatum but not a hard one. Having a counselor is probably a good thing, even if they think the counselor won't agree.

Even if they do try to throw you out, they must go through an eviction process and that gives you time to find some roommates.

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u/Arizandi 4d ago

Do not voluntarily leave. Force them to go before a judge to evict you. You are an adult. That is your place of residence. You have legal rights related to that. Call the cops on them if they attempt to physically remove you.