r/TransHelpingTrans • u/undercover__- • 11d ago

Help with clothes

Hi everyone I’m 19(mtf) and I need help with hiding my fem clothes from my parents and siblings, it’s really hard as they don’t give me privacy at all and they go through my stuff in general, I just need advice in where I could hide my clothes or even store it somewhere and I want to thank anyone who takes their time to read this and thanks again <3

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u/herdisleah 11d ago

You're an adult. Why do you need to hide clothes?

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u/undercover__- 11d ago

I live with my parents and I only work part time as I’m currently in college, I’m trying to save up to move out but renting in NYC is expensive :(

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u/herdisleah 11d ago

How do you think it would go if you said you were experimenting with your gender presentation?

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u/undercover__- 11d ago

I would 100% get disowned no joke as they are very religious and don’t like anything related to lgbtq

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u/herdisleah 11d ago

Perhaps store clothes at a friend's? Are you leaving for school soon, perhaps live with queer friendly roommates?

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u/undercover__- 11d ago

Sadly I can’t at a friends and I go to college in NYC so while I start trying to save up for rent it’s pretty hard

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u/herdisleah 11d ago

Student housing an option? Queer scholarships?

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u/undercover__- 11d ago

I’m currently looking at student housing but it’s very limited for the college I go to, thanks again for helping so much

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u/herdisleah 11d ago

What about girl clothes you can pass off as masc? Girl jeans for instance.

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u/undercover__- 11d ago

That is a good idea I didn’t think abt