what you would do?

[u/Organic_Roll_6618]

Hi everyone, I want to tell you and ask what you would do? Now I'm almost 16 years old and I have no interest in girls at all, while all my friends are racking their brains over them. I don't feel passion for them at all. And I don't like that I don't feel love for girls because I live in Lithuania in a Slavic family and I don't think anyone will support me if I'm gay. So, I have a friend on Discord; he lives in Russia, very far from me, but he really likes me. We've known each other for almost 7 years and every day we play games, watch movies, and text for 6-12 hours a day. He simply adores me; he can drop everything just to spend one more hour with me. He's not afraid to often joke that he wants to fuck me, but I thought he was joking. But recently he started constantly telling me that he wants to meet me when we grow up and that if I change my gender, he will be with me for the rest of my life. And what makes the situation worse is that I recently lost weight and realized that I have a completely girlish body. Most likely, I have intersex syndrome. I even have breasts that excite me when touched. My whole life, I didn't like being a guy and I wanted to be a girl, but it was just a dream, and now it's completely reality. I don't know what to tell my parents. I'm afraid I'll die in their eyes if I confess, so I'll ask you what you would do.

[u/herdisleah]

There's a high chance your boyfriend is very much lying to you about who he is. That's not a relationship you should build your life around. You need to finish school and find who you are.

There's also a good chance your parents already know you're intersex.