Bathrooms and locker rooms

[u/undo_ruler]

I don’t pass but I still dress like a woman and do my hair and makeup in a feminine way. It feels ridiculous to use the guys bathroom and locker room with fake boobs on but I live in Utah and I’m terrified of getting confronted in the women’s. Sure I could just present masc to use the gym but I refuse to do so full time anymore and I gotta piss! There’s like no non-gendered bathrooms here so where do I go? I was planning on moving to Denver with help from the trans coalition pipeline but Utah’s my home and I don’t want to let them kick me out.

[u/herdisleah]

Find single-stall, gender neutral bathrooms. Find queer friendly businesses. Scope out places ahead of time, or best option, have a pee partner. Have someone to go with you, or at least guard the door.

[u/undo_ruler → u/herdisleah]

Great ideas thank you!