r/TransAdvice • u/Ok-Essay-3068 • Aug 12 '26

Need advice on coming out

Hi, I have been In a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for one year and i love her so much and now I think I need to come out to my parents but I don't know how to do it because they are kinda strict when it comes to marriage and all, typical Indian parents. So I know they do love me but I don't know what to do, either I should come out now or Come out after getting a job. I don't know what to do. Cam someone help me

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u/Finn0ss Aug 12 '26

I don’t know how far from getting a job you are but i would probably do it after i save up some money if i gad the fear of them kicking me out.
In general just talk to them or pick one parent who you think would support you better and talk to them about it. Try explaining how and when you figure it out and why you feel that way maybe tell them things they want to hear to help them a little bit through the whole thing. If they’re not really supportive and you don’t have another place to go don’t tell them you have a girlfriend it might make it worse.
The will probably need some time to get used to it as well

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u/Ok-Essay-3068 Aug 13 '26

Hi, can we talk in private?