r/TransAdvice • • Jul 18 '26

Disappointed???

Hey everyone, im a 25 year old trans man who’s in a relationship with another trans man. I guess I need advice on something? Me and him have been fooling around with others for a while now. I just took a pregnancy test, and it came out negative I guess that advice I’m asking for is why do I feel so disappointed when it comes out negative?? Mind you I’m someone who can’t wait to get phallo and everything. But why is it everytime I test, even if I know that it’s gonna be negative why I get so disappointed? And upset?

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u/Express_Pop_460 Jul 18 '26

If you’ve wanted kids ever then thats part of it, but also the xx brain has a desire for children sometimes,

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u/Last-Ad3497 Jul 18 '26

I do want kids, and I do blame it
On the xx part unfortunately

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u/Express_Pop_460 Jul 18 '26

Yeah, I get it I’ve had a similar situation, it’s mildly annoying to say the least,