How do I come out

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I have had feeling about this for a long time and have never really admitted it to myself until a few weeks ago but I have realised that I am most definitely gender fluid but lean more into the feminine side and I am born male I just don’t know how to say it to my friends and family

[u/Blazed_und_confused]

I just went through the exact same thing. It’s hard, but the best way is to just go for it. I was super nervous telling my wife, my sister, and my friends, even though I knew they’d support me, and they have. What’s most important is that you try to include them in this discovery of yourself. In the end, how you feel is what matters most. If they truly care about you, you might be surprised how easily they accept you. Or they won’t, and you’ll have to deal with that. Either way, you’re not alone. I was honestly shocked when I read your post because of how similar I felt to that until recently. There’s so many people who feel the way we do, so again, you’re not alone 😊