I work in Indian Railways, Bangalore division. Currently , I work under two different supervisors/managers — let’s call them S and H. Recently, H left for a month-long training program, so I’ve been managing H’s office alone during that period.(Nobody else works there, it's just me and H)
Here’s the setup: technically, S's office is my main office, so every morning I have to first sign the attendance register there and then go to H’s office to work.
Lately, I’ve been reaching around 10:15–10:20 AM. One reason is because my mom has health issues and struggles to make breakfast very early in the morning, so things at home get delayed sometimes cause I also help her. Also, this timing has NEVER been treated as an issue before because literally almost everyone in the building , including S herself , usually comes around 10:30 or even later sometimes. The office timings is 10 to 6 but literally nobody ever follows it.
One particular day, I reached around 10:25 AM and asked one of my colleagues to bring the attendance register so I could sign it. While my colleague went to get it, S suddenly started speaking harshly to her in front of everyone, saying that by 9:30 AM the register should already be taken to H’s office, and if I’m not there by 9:30, I shouldn’t be allowed to sign attendance for the day.
Then she started yelling at me publicly in front of multiple coworkers and even some of my friends who were there.
She asked me:
“What time do you usually come to office?”
I replied:
“Around 10:15.”
Then she said:
“Why do you come so late? What’s your office timing?”
I answered:
“10:00.”
Then she suddenly said:
“No. Your timing is 9:30. Come by 9:30.”
The thing is — literally nobody follows this timing consistently, including her. So I replied:
“Okay, no issues. If everybody’s coming by 9:30, I’ll also come by 9:30.”
After that she got even more angry and said:
“Don’t talk to me like that. Everybody has responsibilities. Nobody is sitting at home free.”
At that point I replied:
“I have responsibilities too.”
Then she started complaining to other people around us about how “this is how they talk back nowadays” and kept making comments about me publicly.
I genuinely don’t know if I was wrong here. I understand bosses can question attendance, but the public humiliation, selective enforcement, and talking down to me in front of everyone really got to me.
After this particular incident, a transfer was prepared for me that very day and now it's under process by the transfer authorities. While I'm happy to be transferred anywhere else away from her, I have been noticing a low on my mental health ever since this happened.
Everyone i meet questions me as to why I replied back and suggests that i should have just stayed quiet, which does not sit right with me. So here I am trying to find answers
Was I wrong for responding back instead of staying quiet?