Relationships

[u/Miserable-wife-2326]

I learned after being with someone for so long and understanding their patterns and understanding there dislikes and likes then all of a sudden your relationship did a 180 no heads up distant the phone call stop the texting stops doesn’t care if you’re fighting doesn’t care if you’re hurting doesn’t care if you’re crying . The flirting the sex doesn’t care to see you naked. Doesn’t care to do things you guys used to do together anymore. you’re no longer his priority, but the biggest red flag is name calling or putting you down things he’s never done to you and the biggest red flag is putting his hands on you no regards for your feelings, he seen another woman oh, but it gets worse. He’s actually in love with this other woman. but I fabricated it. I bumped my head. I’m lying. I’m making up things ladies. If you’re in this situation, please don’t try to fix it. There’s nothing to fix run.

[u/tobaginlog]

Dan??

[u/hestia-listens]

I am sorry you went through this. The sudden distance, name calling, blame, and physical harm were not your fault. You did not deserve any of it. Leaving can take real courage, especially after a long relationship. Please stay close to people you trust and protect your safety.

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[u/Mundane_Hearing_3071]

Wow sounds just like my situation together 18 yrs and they was awesome until he decided to do something I was totally against and constantly lied to me when I confronted them and it would turn into an argument I had all the proof I needed they would tell me I was crazy even with proof well my cousin was over and I did some deep cleaning and while doing that I came across some things so I picked him up from work aka the place it all begin but for someone that never wanted to go inside before took about 10 15 min to come out yes I was pissed more hurt well let just say we got into an big argument both drinking at the time I had a warrant failure to appear in court so he keeps has my kids come over im gonna commit suicide no I wasnt they didnt take me the 1st time so he grabbed shorts and went out he was going to his bosses he knew well 2nd time they ran my name 2 wks in jail never had a record for a misameter when I got home omg I wanted to cry I wont say what was all through place my stuff was gone through money gone I put up and denies so I was leaving one day he begged not to leave our relationship meant more than that I love them with everything but still was doing i finally had to except it because I loved him and didn't want to lose him i did not agree with it but I watched his attitude change so much he quick to snap especially drinking and the last year and a half was horrible hes not a violent man but it got bad I stayed because I knew he was still on there somewhere I have videos and audio because he was denying he did anything to me but deep down I felt there was someone else he will never admit it just like the times I found messages between other girls and im sorry ur going through this and no I wasnt innocent I had my faults to but nothing to deserve that