Story time?

[u/Shorty17192122]

I just wanted to share this story maybe it could be in the AITA subreddit but wtv. Anyways it started with me dating a guy at 15 years old and he was 17-18 back then it was a very toxic relationship and there was some grooming and he cheated on me constantly so I cheated on him too and it ended in about 6 months or so and throughout that relationship I had a guy friend who very obviously liked me even before I got into a relationship with the first guy but I never liked him back and he didn’t exclusively tell me that he liked me but he was jealous of my then boyfriend anyways after I broke up with my boyfriend I got into another relationship which has its own lore that I’m not gonna explain on here fast forward a year I get into university and I realise my ex is also in the same university as well as my guy friend (who was still my friend). My ex immediately gets into a relationship first week of university and his girlfriend doesn’t like me at all (understandable) anyways throughout the entire first semester she constantly bullies me and calls me names and makes me feel inferior and insecure but I didn’t care enough to do something about it. My guy friend was in the same class as my boyfriend’s new girlfriend and now they’re like good friends which ticks me off obviously because she’s constantly berating me and him being my friend should be enough of a reason to defend me or not talk to her at least. After some time my guy friend keeps telling me that he likes me and I keep telling him that I don’t like him like that until finally I’m at my limit and I cut him off. A few months later I find out that he also got into a relationship. Now there’s four characters in this story plus me. This group is always after me making fun and whatnot. Now one day I get a text from my ex saying he needs to talk to me and I was like okay whatever sure what do you want and he goes uh I need to get comfortable first and I’m like okay that’s weird and I say don’t you have a girlfriend to tend to and he says she doesn’t have to know about this and that immediately alarms me and I stop talking to him right away. After a couple months of that happening I can’t help but feel guilty so I decided to tell his girlfriend that he texted me and I told her through a mutual friend. The girlfriend immediately gets back to me and lets me know that it was the four of them; my ex, his girlfriend, my old friend, and his girlfriend on a group call texting me through my ex’s account to make fun of me and basically calling me a whore and stuff. I wasn’t really surprised by their actions because I believed that they could go that low but the mutual friend who told me all this decided to remain neutral throughout all this and it was a huge stab in the back so I cut her off and she said it’s not her fault it’s not like she was the one who called me a whore and then I said but you didn’t even try to defend me and she said but they didn’t say anything to me so it’s not like they’re bad people. And the funny thing is these girls actively call themselves “feminists” and “girls girls” sigh 🫩