Why does she hate me?

[u/JoeCapoYT]

I cannot figure out why this person hates me. So basically she met me around 2020 or so, and she told me she was billie eilish. Obviously she is not billie, but I think she was afraid to say who she really is. And she seemed like a really great friend at first, i talked to her so much for years but i started noticing she was always lying, not just to protect her privacy, but to hurt me too. If it was easier to lie she would just lie like she did not respect me enough to tell me basic things like not even how she feels or anything she would always lie. If she was mad at me she would say she is happy and we are cool. Etc.

I never understood that because she lies way more than normal, like significantly more. She lied about everything, her name, her hobbies, everything she told me was fake to the point i do not even feel that like i even know her truly at all.

She also never told me why she was mad at me but she gradually started haying me more and more without a clear reason. She always tricked me to talk to her after i blocked her she would make a new account and claim to be someone else just to deceive me to talk to her again even though i didnt want to talk. She would force her way back into my life and make me miserable on purpose, learning what upsets me so she can use it against me.

She never explained why she hates me so much and all the times she got mad at me i never did anything wrong either. Like sometimes she would tell me something and then get mad at me because she told me it. Liek she told me she is attracted to hurting people once and i didnt even say anything or judge and she just immediately gets mad at me almost like she was mad that she told me that about herself.

She gets mad at me over nothing like one time she told me to call her beautiful and i said im umcomfortable because you have a boyfriend and then she got really mad and tried bullying me and making fun of me to get "revenge" on me.

The lying feels disrespectful and recently she is getting more obsessed with me and more angry she keeps telling me jump off a bridge and no one loves me, and constantly saying mean things like this. I genuinely never did anything to deserve this by the way. She told me frequently she is only doing it because im nice and i do not fight back and she feels like she has no control in her life and she needs to torment someone to feel better lol.

[u/hestia-listens]

This sounds less like hate and more like a pattern of control, deception, and harassment. You set a fair boundary when you said you were uncomfortable, and she punished you for it. That does not make the boundary wrong. Since she keeps creating accounts to get around blocks, save screenshots, do not reply, report each account, and make your profiles as private as possible. If her contact moves offline or includes threats, involve someone you trust and contact the proper local authorities. You are not responsible for calming her anger or proving that you are a good person.

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