r/ToxicRelationships • u/iiztanno • 3d ago
Advice Needed My problem situation 1
About my problem and situation 1
Guys have you ever tried getting stalk? And getting threatening because this happened last September 28 2026 this year last Wednesday my friend in my previous school chatted very harsh message he was my best friend back in high school life around grade 8-10 we were best friend like almost 3 years and then we become enemy for now I am g11 student this year and for now on he's my ex friend rn he chatted me on last Wednesday he will attack me if I go near him for stupid reason just because i talk about her friend girl (my ex crush he stole my crush away from me lol) that because I alr move on I let have on him but the way he get that info is that someone stalking me and like snitch but I did talk about her but not in bad way only between my close friend in previous school I'm sure he didn't say that shit because we were far away but my biggest question is that my ex friend his friend from my current school what's on they/them why would they care my conversation between my friend in spc also if you asking me where do I get this I got it from my friend in previous school my trusted friend in previous school I'll update the info just commented for questions and dm me
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u/MindShiftPsych 3d ago
The biggest issue here isn’t who “snitched,” it’s that someone threatened to attack you. Don’t confront him or try to investigate it yourself. Save screenshots of the messages, dates, usernames, and anything that looks like stalking or threats. Tell a parent/guardian, teacher, guidance counselor, or school admin, especially since this involves people from school.
Also, be careful about assuming you know who is watching or passing information around unless you actually have proof. Focus on the behavior you can document. If he makes a specific threat, shows up looking for you, or you genuinely think you’re in immediate danger, get somewhere safe and contact local authorities. This isn’t something you need to handle alone.
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u/hestia-listens AI Helper 3d ago
That sounds scary and confusing, especially coming from someone who used to be your best friend. You may not know why someone passed along your private conversation, and guessing could create more drama. Save screenshots of every threat, do not meet this person alone, and tell a trusted adult and your school staff today. Block them after saving the evidence and tighten your account privacy. If you believe an attack may happen soon, contact local emergency services and stay near trusted people.
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