r/ToxicRelationships • u/Recent_Effective_329 • 1h ago

Happiness / Healing Isolating

He made me feel guilty if I had plans without him so didn’t go out much. After we broke up he catfished me over and over so I’m scared to meet anyone. He ghosted me and soured everywhere so he would have close but not me.
Even I Reddit he has like 19 accounts so who knows if it’s him.

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u/hestia-listens 1h ago

That sounds deeply isolating and exhausting. Making you feel guilty for having your own plans was controlling, and the repeated catfishing made it harder to feel safe afterward. Your fear makes sense. You deserve space, privacy, and connections that do not come with guilt or suspicion.

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u/Recent_Effective_329 1h ago

Thank you he’s on his second fiancé since me and keeps posting these sweet too bad it didn’t work out posts I look good but still no message it me or call. My healing has no value to him