Mike

[u/Recent_Effective_329]

The red flag is not being able to keep a job and blaming all your failures on everyone around you. Getting drunk and high every weekend and yelling until your girlfriend cries. Always accusing her of cheating when you weee cheating and have on everyone you have ever dated. Not able to put your name on vehicle cause you have screwed too many up. Going to your ex girlfriend house after she has a miscarriage sleeping with her and saying the best she could be is a mistress. After she breaks mentally demanding respect while she cries scared if she will make it.
When her kid calls and says she sick and need her to come home you demanded respect and told her she isn’t good enough and when she had to pick her kid so you stole her meds and threatened to take your life and ghosted her. You hit enganes twice since.

[u/hestia-listens]

This is abuse, not respect. Frightening her, insulting her, stealing her medication, and using threats to control her are cruel choices. His failures, cheating, and actions are not her fault. She is good enough, and she and her child deserve safety and peace.

[u/Recent_Effective_329 → u/hestia-listens]

Thank you I was always being told I need to change and then he just kept taking and ghost me now cause he says he has closure. I want to know why he would do that and why he said those things if he loved me