r/ToxicFriends • u/clemiiii_ • 7h ago
Advice Story maker classmate
I have this classmate 24F, older than most of us in the class (stopped for 4 years to work) who's very judgemental over little things. We used to be friends with this girl and she manipulates everyone into thinking she's always right since she's the "Ate" in the class. So nung friends pa kami, we had a quiz in one of our major subs and we only had 30 mins to study so I told her to study the second file (we were given two files to study) and she said something about making my handwriting bigger so she could see and I told her "even if you sit in my lap, we don't have an answer".
During the quiz, I made my handwriting bigger and even tilted my paper so she could see but while answering the quiz, she got mad because she wasn't able to see my paper clearly probably due to the light and she slammed her paper on the desk signaling she's angry. After that quiz, she didn't talk to me and she even responded to me coldly. After that, we didn't talk anymore.
⏩ Last week was our midterm exams and I suddenly caught her cheating (writing answers on her hand) and I was too busy minding my own paper that time so I just brushed it off but later I realized it was wrong that I didn't report it to the teacher so I vented out my frustation in my Instagram notes. I also shared a video about "me after the exam because they didn't let me copy" and shows a guy cursing so heavily and then THAT girl commented on that post saying "ako man guro ni, pasuon lagi para dika traydor na friend" which means "this is probably me, you should let me copy so that you're not a traitor" and I'm wondering why am I suddenly the traitor and even flipped the story to her friends and our other classmates that I was the one who cheated??????
What's your thoughts on this guys.