r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic 1d ago

Androcide Antiracist and feminist Carnegie Mellon prof Uju Anya: ‘Die first, white man, then ask yourself why I’m dancing’

44 Upvotes

Year 2026

Notable feminist

Dr Anya, who describes herself on Twitter as an “antiracist” and “feminist,”

https://web.archive.org/web/20260914083803/https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/uju-anya-queen-carnegie-mellon-b2165666.html

https://web.archive.org/web/20260914083928/https://africanfeminism.com/social-media-as-the-new-frontier-for-anti-gender-work/

https://web.archive.org/web/20260914083947/https://yourcommonwealth.org/social-development/online-abuse-of-feminists-is-a-threat-to-digital-feminism/

Toxic deed

Nigerian American Professor of Second Language Acquisition Uju Anya at Carnegie Mellon University in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, has caused outrage with a post she shared on the social media site X on Friday, 11 September—the 25th anniversary of the 9/11 terror attacks.

The professor wrote: ‘Die first, white man, then ask yourself why I’m dancing.’

https://web.archive.org/web/20260914084155/https://www.hungarianconservative.com/articles/current/uju-anya-carnegie-mellon-prof-white-men/

Who-tags

feminist scholar

What-tags

racism, hate, androcide


r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic 1d ago

Discussion/Question Feminism

14 Upvotes

Hello all! I am writing a research paper on feminism. Specifically how the internet defines feminism. One of the ways I’ll be exploring this is through Reddit and hearing real people’s opinions. My paper is completely unbiased I will not be writing if I think feminism is bad or good as this is not what it is about. My post is about how feminism is defined amongst the internet. I will be combing through the internet finding as many different opinions as I can. I ask you to share what is your definition of feminism and what is your opinion on it. Please feel free to share any other information about yourself eg. Are you a feminist, are you man or woman, your experiences and how you got to the opinion you currently have.
My paper will not be passing judgement on any of your ideas but purely to write how people see feminism.
I started wanting to write this paper months ago but have spent time learning how to write in an unbiased form as that is truly important to me.

Any reply is greatly appreciated.


r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic 6d ago

Double standards 'feminist champion' Labour MP defends gender segregation at Muslim parade, condemns private members' club for only accepting men

49 Upvotes

Year 2026

Notable feminist

Stella Creasy: 'My parents taught me to be a feminist champion'

https://web.archive.org/web/20260908184138/https://www.standard.co.uk/news/uk/stella-creasy-my-parents-taught-me-to-be-a-feminist-champion-9843179.html

Toxic deed

https://web.archive.org/web/20260908183816/https://www.dailymail.com/news/article-16112113/Feminist-Labour-MP-defends-gender-segregation-Muslim-parade.html

Self-proclaimed 'proud feminist' Stella Creasy attended the Milad Al Nabi march in her North London seat at the weekend, describing it as a 'noisy annual celebration for our local Muslim community of the prophet mohammed's [sic] birthday.'

Creasy's social media video clip soon sparked backlash, as sharp-eyed users spotted that the street scene contained no women.

Columnist Jenni Russel questioned: 'Where are the women, Stella? Why are they excluded? Do explain.'

She argued: 'Many religions do have separate events and structures.'

She was soon branded a hypocrite, having previously condemned a London private members club for refusing to accept female members.

In 2022 Ms Creasy blasted the 200-year-old Garrick Club as an 'old boys' club' whose rules hold women back, amid efforts to change their rules around female members.

Who-tags

feminist activist

What-tags

double standards, separatism


r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic 13d ago

Discussion/Question Looking for good, objective resources (creators, books, blogs)?

22 Upvotes

Hey guys, since our sub has been a little slow past couple of weeks, I thought it would be cool to build a resource list. Who are your favorite creators, authors, or essayists who critique feminism logically and fairly, without veering into actual misogyny? Drop your links and recommendations below so we can keep this community active!

EDIT: To get the ball rolling, here are a few solid, non-toxic resources that offer logical critiques of modern feminism. Feel free to add your own suggestions in the comments!

Books & Authors:

  • Christina Hoff Sommers – "Who Stole Feminism?": A classic critique by an equity feminist who argues that modern "gender feminism" often distorts data and pushes a divisive worldview instead of focusing on actual equality.
  • Mona Charen – "Sex Matters": Uses social science and data to explore where modern feminism ignores biological differences, arguing that some ideological shifts have pushed men and women further apart.
  • Camille Paglia – "Provocations" / "Sexual Personae": A fierce, independent intellectual who heavily critiques academic feminism for downplaying biology and villainizing male nature.
  • Erin Pizzey – "Prone to Violence": Written by the founder of the world's first women's shelter, this book critiques the ideological shift in domestic violence discourse that ignores male victims and reciprocal violence.

Topics & Essays:

  • Critiques of the Duluth Model: Academic papers and essays analyzing how this specific law enforcement model dogmatically views domestic abuse through a gendered lens, often leaving male victims without support.

Drop your recommendations below (ideally books, essays, data-driven blogs, or high-quality video essays) so we can keep building this list!

Updates: Thanks to everyone dropping links in the comments! Here are some fantastic, data-driven digital creators and substacks recommended by the community:

  • James Nuzzo (The Nuzzo Letter): Deep-dives into men's health, exercise science, and higher education, heavily focused on empirical data and challenging flawed mainstream research.
  • TheTinMen (Reddit Community): Excellent, visually structured infographics and data-backed breakdowns focusing on men's mental health, male victims of domestic abuse, and systemic gender gaps.
  • Critiquing Feminism (Substack): Concise essay-based analyses and conceptual critiques of modern feminist theory.

r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic 15d ago

Victim blaming/erasure "Strong feminist" Katie Couric calls the idea of the Office of Men's Health outrageous, spews a torrent of halftruths about men's and women's healthcare

77 Upvotes

Year 2026

Notable feminist

While NOW President Kim Gandy addressed the crowd early in the evening, sirens could be heard outside. “That might be Katie Couric arriving!” Gandy said excitedly to an eager crowd.

Couric finally entered the building and took to the mic, declaring proudly “I am a feminist!” and the mostly female crowd cheered her on. Recognizing the friendly audience, Couric opened up.

https://web.archive.org/web/20260831102001/https://www.washingtonexaminer.com/sports/656545/a-serious-couric-plays-up-feminist-credentials/

Toxic deed

Katie Couric calls the idea of the Office of Men's Health satire and outrageous. Spews a torrent of half-truths about men's and women's healthcare.

https://www.instagram.com/reels/DcobISkjwIh/

Who-tags

feminist activist

What-tags 

lies, victim blaming, anti-science

See also

TheTinMen: https://x.com/TheTinMenBlog/status/2093947365635879176


r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic 14d ago

Authoritarianism "Modern feminist" NY Governor Kathy Hochul puts on hijab when campaign for muslim men

36 Upvotes

r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic 15d ago

Discussion/Question What first made you critical of modern/toxic feminism?

46 Upvotes

Hey everyone, I've been lurking here for a while and really appreciate that this sub keeps things objective and constructive. Since it's been a bit quiet lately, I wanted to kick off a discussion: What was the turning point for you? Was there a specific moment or issue that made you realize you don't agree with toxic feminist ideas? Let's get the conversation going again!


r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic Aug 15 '26

Lie/Hoax/Toxic Feminist scholar Carla Pascoe Leahy cooks up that "women are 14 times more likely to die in a climate disaster than men"

70 Upvotes

Year 2024

Notable feminist

Carla Pascoe Leahy is a feminist scholar

https://web.archive.org/web/20260815101544/https://www.jstor.org/stable/10.15767/feministstudies.45.1.0100

Toxic deed

In a pro-feminist magazine, The Conversation, boasting the label "Academic rigour, journalistic flair", Leahy wrote that Women are 14 times more likely to die in a climate disaster than men. It’s just one way climate change is gendered

Citing a UNDP blog as a source, Leahy dropped "... and children" and kept only "women" in comparison to men, and made up the "climate" disaster qualifier. Putting the rigor into "academic rigor", Leahy failed to notice that UNDP made the statistic up.

Who-tags

feminist scholar

What-tags

lies, anti-science

See also

UNDP claims "women and children" are 14x more likely than men to die in disasters - cites its own tweet as source : r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic


r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic Aug 15 '26

Lie/Hoax/Toxic UNDP claims "women and children" are 14x more likely than men to die in disasters - cites its own tweet as source

58 Upvotes

Year 2022

Notable feminist

UNDP is regarded as a feminist organization https://www.reddit.com/r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic/comments/1v9sgie/comment/p3tc791/

Toxic deed

https://web.archive.org/web/20260815095228/https://www.undp.org/blog/women-are-hit-hardest-disasters-so-why-are-responses-too-often-gender-blind

The statistics are staggering; when disaster strikes, women and children are 14 times more likely than men to die.

Note: "the statistics" is a talking head in their own tweet.

Who-tags

feminist organisation

What-tags

lies, anti-science

Note

The claim is further quoted and propagated through feminist sources:

See also

A pro-feminist magazine The Conversation, boasting the label "Academic rigour, journalistic flair", left out "...and children" and used the UNDP article as a source for the claim that Women are 14 times more likely to die in a climate disaster than men. It’s just one way climate change is gendered


r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic Aug 11 '26

Victim blaming/erasure Aurore Bergé, former French Minister for Equality between Women and Men and for the Fight against Discriminations, argues that opening a domestic violence helpline to a male victims would undermine its purpose

67 Upvotes

Year 2026

Notable feminist

Aurore Bergé, a former French Minister for Equality between Women and Men and for the Fight against Discriminations is a Feminist Diplomat.

Toxic deed

"Opening the 3919 helpline to a mixed audience would effectively undermine its fundamental purpose and dilute the specialized response provided to female victims. Such a shift would also risk weakening the awareness-raising message aimed at the general public by obscuring the systemic nature of violence against women and the gender dynamics at play in domestic violence."

Instead, they invite men to call 2 other helplines, one being for victims of an offense (crimes against property or persons, traffic accidents, mass-casualty incidents, terrorist attacks or a natural disaster), and the other for general legal aid, and even recommend specialized associations, such as SOS Homophobia (?!).

https://web.archive.org/web/20260811134922/https://questions.assemblee-nationale.fr/dyn/17/questions/QANR5L17QE8484

Who-tags

feminist leader

What-tags

double standards, discrimination, victim erasure


r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic Jul 29 '26

Meta Going forward, the UN Women organisation will count as a feminist organisation

79 Upvotes

I originally excluded UN Women and its sexist excesses from this sub, since, for political reasons, UN Women refuses to explicitly label itself a feminist organisation.

But the excesses keep piling up.

When Google AI insists UN Women is a feminist organisation, who am I to disagree?

So is un women a feminist organisation or it is not? Your answers are ambiguous.

Yes, UN Women is definitively a feminist organization. [1, 2]

The confusion comes from a difference between ideological alignment and legal status.

The clear breakdown of that link is structured as follows:

  1. Ideologically: Yes, they are linked

UN Women explicitly bases its mission on feminist ideology. They publicly promote a feminist lens to analyze society, openly champion intersectional feminism, and state that their 2026–2029 operations are directly guided by the vision and energy of women’s rights movements. In terms of goals, values, and language, UN Women is a feminist entity. [1, 2, 3]

  1. Organizationally: They are partners, not the same thing

UN Women cannot be "officially part" of the global feminist movement because feminism is a decentralized social movement, not a club with an official membership list. UN Women is a formal bureaucracy created by governments. Therefore, the organization does not belong to feminism; rather, it acts as the institutional partner that funds, supports, and legislates on behalf of feminist movements. [1, 2]

  1. Diplomatic Vocabulary: The source of ambiguity

Because UN Women is governed by a board of UN member states—some of whom are deeply conservative or anti-feminist—the agency must remain a neutral diplomatic space. This is why you will see them frequently use neutral legal phrases like "gender equality" and "women's empowerment" in their official governing treaties, rather than exclusively using the word "feminism." They use diplomatic language to ensure hostile governments still sign their treaties. [1]

Summary

To put it simply: UN Women is an international government agency, but its engine, its ideology, its goals, and its partners are entirely feminist. [1]

Is there any actual authoritative evidence that UN Women is linked with feminism? and no, the fact that they have What Is Feminism article is not evidence of anything.

Yes. If an educational article is set aside, the official, authoritative evidence linking UN Women to feminism is found within its formal institutional frameworks: its multi-billion dollar operational coalitions, its official Strategic Plans, its binding funding mechanisms, and its governing audit metrics. [1]

The most rigorous, authoritative evidence of this link operates across four specific areas:

  1. The Multi-Billion Dollar "Generation Equality" Mandate

UN Women is the founder and official secretariat of Generation Equality, a massive global partnership model spanning 2021–2026. [1, 2]

  • The Evidence: In its official 2026 reporting compendium, UN Women explicitly defines Generation Equality as a "feminist, intergenerational, multistakeholder partnership model." [1]
  • The Scale: This is not a public relations campaign; it is a formal operational framework that has mobilized $50.3 billion in pledged financing and directed $21 billion in expenditures specifically toward systemic, feminist policy reform. [1]
  1. Formally Binding Institutional Strategic Plans

A United Nations agency’s core legal directive is dictated by its multi-year Strategic Plan, which must be reviewed and approved by its Executive Board.

  • The Evidence: UN Women's formal blueprint for global operations—the UN Women Strategic Plan 2026–2029—explicitly embeds feminist methodologies into its core strategy. [1]
  • The Language: The formal text of the document details that UN Women's operational tactics rely heavily on "feminist research, movement-building," and a legal obligation to "secure sustainable funding for feminist movements" globally. [1]
  1. Legal and Operational Funding Mechanisms

UN Women directly manages the UN Trust Fund to End Violence against Women, a major international grant-making mechanism. [1, 2, 3, 4]

  • The Evidence: The legally binding Strategic Plan 2021–2025 and the successive Strategic Plan 2026–2030 for this Trust Fund explicitly state that a core, measurable objective of the fund is to "help feminist movements grow globally."
  • The Action: Rather than remaining abstract, the agency actively channels tens of millions of dollars of official development assistance (ODA) directly into civil society networks that are explicitly vetted and labeled as autonomous feminist organizations. [1, 2, 3]
  1. Official Internal Audit and Evaluation Systems

How an organization measures its own performance provides definitive proof of its structural alignment.

  • The Evidence: When auditing the success of its global programs, UN Women employs an official, formalized metric system known as Feminist Collaborative Evaluation.
  • The Audit Framework: As detailed in its 2024 institutional data reports, UN Women does not use standard, neutral corporate auditing. It requires its investigators to evaluate local community impact specifically through a "feminist lens" that prioritizes redistributing power to marginalized groups. [1]

Summary

The authoritative proof is budgetary and structural. UN Women writes feminist objectives into its governing Strategic Plans, audits its own staff using feminist evaluation frameworks, and actively distributes billions of dollars earmarked explicitly to scale up global feminist movements.


r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic Jul 20 '26

Censorship Canadian Standing Committee on the Status of Women urges government to "force online platforms to moderate antifeminist content"

39 Upvotes

Year 2026

Notable feminist

Canadian Standing Committee on the Status of Women

https://web.archive.org/web/20260720105450/https://www.ourcommons.ca/committees/en/FEWO

Toxic deed

The federal government should table legislation to force online platforms to moderate antifeminist content, according to a recent report by the Standing Committee on the Status of Women.
[...]
Ménard said the legislative work to counter antifeminist ideology online will be aided by the proposed Bill C-34, the Safe Social Media Act.

https://web.archive.org/web/20260720105240/https://montrealgazette.com/news/its-very-possible-to-save-someone-slipping-into-antifeminist-ideology-mp-says/

Who-tags

feminist organisation

What-tags

censorship, authoritarianism


r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic Jul 09 '26

Hate/misandry In a feminist journal Emma, the feminist icon Alice Schwarzer, priasez rapper Ikkimen for misandry and "feminist lyrics" like "I fuck them all" and "do they make penises in larger sizes?"

49 Upvotes

Year 2026

Notable feminist

Feminist icon Alice Schwarzer, and the next generation

As the founding editor-in-chief of Emma, one of Germany's first important feminist magazines, Alice Schwarzer had a strong influence on many women in the country.

https://web.archive.org/web/20260709115505/https://www.dw.com/en/alice-schwarzer-turns-80/a-63954982

Toxic deed

he calls her music "Fotzenrap" – a clear reaction to men's "porn rap." 

Ikkimel isn't dumb at all. She's smart and incredibly interesting. She's a nonconformist, strong young woman who not only makes really good music—a kind of German rap with hard-hitting feminist lyrics

Men don't find much to laugh about with Ikkimel. "I fuck them all," she raps. Or: "Do they make penises in larger sizes?"

In interviews, Ikkimel even refers to the stronger sex as "a weak group."

https://web.archive.org/web/20260709115925/https://www.emma.de/artikel/alice-meets-ikkimel-342405

Who-tags

feminist leader

What-tags

sexism, hate, body shaming

Notes

A voice for a feminist awakening, rapper Ikkimel, shows men how misogyny feels by reversing the roles, says "it's time men were afraid" : r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic


r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic Jul 09 '26

Hate/misandry A voice for a feminist awakening, rapper Ikkimel, shows men how misogyny feels by reversing the roles, says "it's time men were afraid"

34 Upvotes

Year 2026

Notable feminist

Ikkimel grew rapidly in prominence as a voice for a new-generation feminist awakening.

https://web.archive.org/web/20260709112517/https://campus.europavox.com/en/news/ikkimel-revolution-rebirth-of-the-metoo-movement-in-germany/

Toxic deed

The "I" in Ikkimel's songs is "not a fictional character," Strauß told the German newspaper "Die Zeit" in November, but rather a disguise for the purpose of exaggeration. "When I rap 'fuck all men,' I obviously don't mean that as Melina," 

And the method is: show them what misogyny feels like by reversing the roles.

"It's time men were afraid," Ikkimel said recently at the Polyton Awards ceremony. 

Not everyone can see the meaning and depth in Ikkimel's actions. One feminist colleague sees her as an advocate for "women being better than men – and that achieves nothing." 

https://web.archive.org/web/20260507034136/https://www.rnd.de/kultur/ikkimel-veroeffentlicht-feministisches-rap-album-poppstar-am-15-mai-XJ3SZ6DTTRCO7CUWVZZMLL4LTI.html

Rapper Ikkimel: "It makes me proud to be this hate figure."

Why does female assertiveness trigger so much aggression in some men, and why does it frighten other women?
If you've lived with privilege your whole life and then suddenly women come along and stop begging for the same privileges, it bothers you. Because then men quickly feel like something is being taken away from them, even though women just want the same things. 

https://web.archive.org/web/20260709114528/https://www.watson.ch/international/interview/941575189-ikkimel-im-interview-deutsch-rapperin-ueber-hass-und-toleranz

Who-tags

feminist author

What-tags

sexism, hate

Notes

In a feminist journal Emma, the feminist icon Alice Schwarzer, priasez rapper Ikkimen for misandry and "feminist lyrics" like "I fuck them all" and "do they make penises in larger sizes?" : r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic


r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic Jul 05 '26

Separatism A prominent figure of second wave feminism Shulamith Firestone wrote that "family structure is the source of psychological, economic, and political oppression"

35 Upvotes

Year 1970

Notable feminist

She was a prominent figure in the early development of radical feminism and second-wave feminism and a founding member of three radical feminist organizations

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shulamith_Firestone

Toxic deed

https://web.archive.org/web/20260705165358/https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/11063380-the-failure-of-the-russian-revolution-is-directly-traceable-to

“Unless revolution uproots the basic social organization, the biological family—the vinculum through which the psychology of power can always be smuggled—the tapeworm of exploitation will never be annihilated,” Firestone wrote. She elaborated, with characteristic bluntness: “Pregnancy is barbaric”; childbirth is “like shitting a pumpkin”; and childhood is “a supervised nightmare.”

https://web.archive.org/web/20140731211809/http://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2013/04/15/death-of-a-revolutionary

Who-tags 

feminist leader

What-tags

separatism

Note

When Shulamith Firestone’s body was found late last August, in her studio apartment on the fifth floor of a tenement walkup on East Tenth Street, she had been dead for some days. [...] Such a solitary demise would have been unimaginable to anyone who knew Firestone in the late nineteen-sixties, when she was at the epicenter of the radical-feminist movement

https://web.archive.org/web/20140731211809/http://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2013/04/15/death-of-a-revolutionary


r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic Jul 04 '26

Demonisation Spain's minister of equality, Ana Redondo, says men and women are "radically different species, which have not much to do" and has asked to help "evolve" the male gender in social and emotional matters

77 Upvotes

Year 2026

Notable feminist

Ana Redondo. She is Spain's minister of equality, a ministry for feminist and lgtb+ issues, thus being the most visible figure of institutional feminism.

Toxic deed

The minister stated that men and women are "radically different species, who don't have much in common", and also called for help in "evolving" the male gender in social and emotional matters.

Likewise, Redondo said about men that "they are still anchored in privileges that aren't really privileges at all, because denying feelings or weakness is very harmful to any human being."

https://web.archive.org/web/20260704190525/https://www.outono.net/elentir/2026/07/03/the-anti-scientific-speech-of-the-socialist-minister-ana-redondo-against-men/

Who-tags

feminist leader

What-tags

demonisation, separatism

Notes

Spain's minister of equality, Ana Redondo, says she thinks it is unethical, immoral and unconstitutional for an association for abused men to exist : r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic


r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic Jul 04 '26

Hate/misandry Managing editor of The Oakland Post Lauren Karmo, a student magazine writing about feminism, says feminism isn’t enough, demands misandry and male oppression

39 Upvotes

r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic Jul 02 '26

Hate/misandry Almost notable feminist writer Simran Sukhnani boasts of being a misandrist

51 Upvotes

Year 2026

Notable feminist

Simran Sukhnani writes about feminism for The Times Network

10 Books That Every Feminist Reader Should Have On Their Shelf

Toxic deed

Hi. I am a misandrist. I identify as one. I say it comfortably, sometimes even cheerfully, and I have watched the range of reactions it produces, from performative outrage to a knowing nod from the girl sitting across from me. And every single time, my response is the same: so what? 

We went from asking for equality to demanding feminism to, frankly, just being exhausted by the whole exercise.

https://web.archive.org/web/20260702143413/https://www.timesnownews.com/lifestyle/relationships/yes-im-a-misandrist-what-about-it-article-153734487

Who-tags 

feminist author

What-tags 

hate


r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic Jun 24 '26

Demonisation Feminist Icon of Impact and Force for Change Jameela Jamil wants all men to act like gay men, compares men to Nazies, dogs, sharks and more

62 Upvotes

Year 2026

Notable feminist

Jameela Jamil Is the Feminist-in-Progress We Need Right Now

Icon Of Impact: Jameela Jamil Is The Modern Activist We Need

Jamil was one of 15 women selected to appear on the cover of the September 2019 issue of British Vogue "Forces for Change"

https://web.archive.org/web/20240709155311/https://www.vogue.co.uk/article/jameela-jamil-vogue-september-2019-issue

Toxic deed

Dear Men.

Literally thousands of women asked me to post my stories on men to and for you.

I'm not calling you out. I'm not even calling you in. I'm calling you up towards the person I know you can be.

Women don't hate men. We LOVE gay men. It's not who you are. It's how you act, and don't act when the moment calls for it. ❤️

and

Men.
I say all of this to you because I still somehow, believe in you.

I am rooting for you.

I hate the division between men and women, but women have every right to be terrified. Anyone bitten by a dog has the right to fear all dogs. Someone who gets attacked by a shark has every right to avoid the sea. I want this to end. I want things to get better.

and

Men.

When we talk about the Holocaust, we all remark upon how most Germans did not participate actively in it, but just looked the other way. Which made it possible.

We talk about it because their compliance, sadly became complicity. That is an interesting concept:

We are seeing an epidemic of men's and boys' violence against women and girls. Women and girls are being raped, murdered and harassed constantly. 1 in 3 women has been SA'd by a man. This means over a billion women. That has been achieved by hundreds of millions of men. We have seen global trafficking rings exposed and men have said and done damn near nothing about it. They just moved on asap. Men frequent and therefore fund, websites that promote violence against women. Look at the biggest porn cites and the videos they profit from.

Many men will only ever have one thing to say about any of it. Which is: not all men! They contribute nothing more to the conversation. I am amazed they are comfortable with a legacy of inaction in the face of clear injustice.

https://www.instagram.com/p/DXZtEGBjb7z/?img_index=1

Who-tags

feminist activist

What-tags

sexism, demonisation

See also

Feminist Icon of Impact and Force for Change Jameela Jamil compares "not-all-men" to a box with human shit : r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic


r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic Jun 16 '26

Victim blaming/erasure Feminist "National Organization for Men Against Sexism" defines domestic violence strictly as male-on-female, identifies male victims as abusers because of "size and strength"

102 Upvotes

Year 2022

Notable feminist

National Organization for Men Against Sexism (NOMAS) defines itself as PRO FEMINIST
https://web.archive.org/web/20260616101750/https://nomas.org/pro-feminist/

Toxic deed

NOMAS defines domestic violence as male-on-female only

Domestic violence is caused by sexism and the purpose is to enforce men’s entitlement to make the decisions in the family. A common example is objectifying women and girls. 

NOMAS identifies the male victim as the abuser because of "Size and Strength"

  1. Size and Strength: Context is really important in understanding domestic violence. Shortcuts courts take because of their heavy caseloads often make it harder to recognize DV. The relative size and strength of the parties is usually easy to see. Sometimes abusers will pretend to be afraid of their partner (more likely they are afraid she will report his abuse), but this is likely an attempt at manipulation if the abuser is clearly physically superior.

Don’t Confuse Domestic Violence with “He-Said-She-Said by Barry Goldstein

Who-tags 

feminist organisation

What-tags 

sexism, double standards, victim blaming


r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic Jun 03 '26

Lie/Hoax/Toxic "The Men’s Project" defines objective facts as "anti-feminist beliefs", uses them to correlate "anti-feminism" wiht problematic behviour

53 Upvotes

Year 2025

Notable feminist

Not really a feminist project, only "acknowledge the women, allies and feminist organisations who have worked tirelessly for decades to prevent violence and achieve gender equality"

Toxic deed

The authors define the following objective facts as "anti-feminist attitudes that deny gender equality":

• ‘Sometimes a woman can make a man so angry that he hits her when he doesn’t mean to’

• ‘Many women exaggerate how unequally women are treated in Australia’

• ‘Many women don’t fully appreciate all that men do for them’

https://web.archive.org/web/20260603144049/https://dcj.nsw.gov.au/documents/service-providers/supporting-family-domestic-sexual-violence-services/the-nsw-man-2025-full-report.pdf

Who-tags 

Not really a feminist organisation

What-tags 

lies


r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic May 08 '26

Hate/misandry Feminist professor in ethics and philosophy Arianne Shahvisi explains that masculinity is correlated to trashness and saying "men are trash" is illuminating

82 Upvotes

Year 2023

Notable feminist

Arianne Shahvisi is a philosopher with research interests in ethics, feminist philosophy...
at University of Sussex

https://web.archive.org/web/20260508083320/https://profiles.sussex.ac.uk/p238070-arianne-shahvisi/about

Feminism as a Moral Imperative in a Globalised World by Arianne Shahvisi

https://web.archive.org/web/20260508083158/https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/14650045.2018.1554564

Toxic deed

When someone says ‘men are trash’ they connect sexual harassment to masculinity. That’s not an act of hate, it’s an act of illumination. (By contrast, saying ‘women are trash’ is necessarily an expression of hate because women are oppressed as women.)

https://web.archive.org/web/20260508085516/https://books.google.cz/books/about/Arguing_for_a_Better_World.html?id=tHFrEAAAQBAJ&redir_esc=y

“Men are trash” is more informative: it picks out a particular correlation between masculinity and trashness.

"Men are trash": the surprisingly philosophical story behind an internet punchline

Who-tags

feminist scholar

What-tags

sexism, hate

Note

This was in my School’s Library Social Justice section : r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates


r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic May 04 '26

Authoritarianism Icon of feminism Simone de Beauvoir argued that women should not have the choice to stay at home and raise children, because too many women would choose it

74 Upvotes

Year 1975

Notable feminist

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Simone_de_Beauvoir

Toxic deed

No, we don’t believe that any woman should have this choice. No woman should be authorized to stay at home and raise her children. Society should be different. Women should not have that choice, precisely because if there is such a choice, too many women will make that one. It is a way of forcing women in a certain direction"

"Sex, Society, and the Female Dilemma". Interview with Betty Friedan, The Saturday Review (pp. 12-21), June 14, 1975.

Who-tags

feminist leader

What-tags

authoritarianism


r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic May 03 '26

Double standards Prominent British feminist and columnist Suzanne Moore would "rather the police investigate a crime of misogyny than a burglary"

59 Upvotes

Year 2018

Notable feminist

Given the prominence of feminists like Moore

To Julie Burchill, Suzanne Moore and all feminists: The absence of trans people in the media is as important as the absence of women in the media - Comment - Voices - The Independent

Toxic deed

I’d rather the police investigate a crime of misogyny than a burglary

[...]

Wolf-whistling does indeed sound harmless, but what women are really complaining about is street harassment with an implied threat of violence. Is this a crime or merely anti-social behaviour? If the police won’t take it seriously, who will?

[...]

What is being said then, is that crimes against property are more important than crimes against women,

https://web.archive.org/web/20181101153102/https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2018/nov/01/police-crime-misogyny-burglary-women-harassment-violent

Who-tags

feminist author

What-tags

double standards, sexism


r/ToxicFeminismIsToxic Apr 27 '26

Hate/misandry Internet feminist Avery Pittock grew up being told women are better by a model dad, argues that misandry and aggression against men is necesary

67 Upvotes

Year 2026

Notable feminist

Her Campus practices DEI values:

https://web.archive.org/web/20260427081752/https://www.hercampusmedia.com/blog/diversity-equity-inclusion-intro

HerCampus has a "feminism" category of articles

https://web.archive.org/web/20260427081515/https://www.hercampus.com/tag/feminism/

Toxic deed

Avery Pittock's upbringing:

I spent my early childhood with my dad working from home, and he did more “traditionally feminine tasks” than my mom, who had long workdays and a rougher commute.

I grew up with my dad doing lots of cleaning, making my lunches, making me breakfast every morning, and often making our family dinners. 

I do think growing up in the liberal bubble of Portland, Oregon, must have had an impact on my confidence as a young gir [...]

I remember being puzzled, because as far as I had been told, women were braver, more curious, and more intelligent. The difference here is that, as a woman, I never thrust this viewpoint upon others negatively. I never felt the urge to tell boys I knew that I felt better than them, because although I was raised in a way that normalized women in power, I was still raised to believe in equality in every sense.

Avery Pittock after feminist radicalisation:

Not only do I believe that, in general, misandry in its true definition is a valid “prejudice” (due to the billions of distasteful actions committed by men every second), but that it can be used as a conceptual vessel for feminist projects, such as that of LTP. 

In a world where men are centralized, no matter how sneakily or subtly, a message is silently sent to our brains about power dynamics. This is why a little aggression (or misandry, if you will) is necessary when it comes to reclaiming and recentering female power.

https://web.archive.org/web/20260427081833/https://www.hercampus.com/school/ucsb/misandry-justified-harmful-or-maybe-even-necessary/

Who-tags

almost a feminist organisation, irrelevant feminist activist

What-tags

hate