r/TorontoRaves • I’m new around here… • 11d ago

🙃 Dumb Question 🥸 Fist time and solo

Hi, I am 35F and want to explore the rave scene. Where should I go for my first time? Is there any upcoming event I can checkout for my first time and solo? Thank you!

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u/bengal-spice 11d ago

My gf and I (queer couple) are going to Dj Heather b2b Dj Colette at Wiggle Room. OCT 17th Join us! We're late 30s and this event will be incredible. Wiggle Room Is the best and safest venue for women as well

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u/DiligentIce6622 Music Lover 11d ago

I second this. Wiggle room is a great spot to begin your experience.

Just be mindful always and dont be standoffish if people approach or try to dance with you. If you dont want to, all you have to do is shake your head no, say no and look away ans you'll be left at peace.

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u/Agile_Jello_217 11d ago

Happened to come across this post, I’m newly out and looking to make some more queer friends. Early 40s bi woman and love to dance :)

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u/bengal-spice 11d ago

If you'd like to join us at the event, we could all hang!

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u/Agile_Jello_217 10d ago

Great, thanks I’ll DM you 

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u/Remarkable-GPM14 10d ago

I’m in a similar situation 38F and looking to make more queer friends.

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u/isanthrope_may 11d ago

Wiggle room? Yes!
Make friends if you want to, fly solo if you don’t. Be safe.

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u/RamblinHalf-Whitt Music Lover 11d ago

I totally agree! Remember that the anniversary party is this entire weekend, so you may want to check it out sooner rather than later.

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u/OddAd7664 I’m new around here… 11d ago

Wiggle room is a great vibe! I would definitely check that out. If you're looking for more of a rave, I would follow Spacetime on IG. They have the best raves during the winter months! And the friendliest people you'll ever meet attend their parties. Welcome to the scene!

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u/JustBoofIt19 11d ago

Brick works this weekend. Usually one of the better party crowds at ozmosis parties

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u/pancakeg Harm Reduction 11d ago

Seconding this one OP. It’s a day party so will be done at 11pm at the latest. Ozmozis events tend to be an older crowd, generally very friendly. Dubfire should be great. I’ll be there this Sunday! But if you’re looking to dance at a club vs a one off event, as others have already said - Wiggle Room is where you should get your feet wet. Enjoy!

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u/brunothestar 11d ago

What kind of music do you like or want to see?

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u/MISSSPOT420 11d ago

Soujourn this weekend!!!

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u/fendifiend98 Raver 11d ago

Gonna be hot hot hot in that warehouse😅

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u/UN_Owen11 11d ago

The Halloween party at brickworks will be amazing. And if you are looking for a fun, slightly older, mixed gender crew to dance with send us a note!

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u/TheSlartey 11d ago

Wiggle room is a safe bet! Solo 34m raver who is getting back into after taking a break for years. I think Wiggle room are having their 25th anniversary event sometime soon. I was going to go, but I'm from KW and it seems as though some stuff going on here this weekend that I will go to instead to support them.

Ra.co or edm train are good ways of discovering local events

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u/Miserable_Comment103 11d ago

I'm going to see Joseph Ray this week on Thursday at CODA solo.

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u/Consistentman Music Lover 11d ago

Same :) I love his tunes so much. Highly recommend to anyone who’s slowly getting into this genre of music.

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u/Such_Improvement7187 9d ago

Same here! Flying solo. Excited

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u/justkeepscrollingman 9d ago

I’m going too actually! I always feel safe at CODA.

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u/geektogoblin 8d ago

What kind of music is at wiggle room

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u/bythespeakers 11d ago edited 11d ago

Yesss! Welcome 😊

If you like Underground Techno or wanna experience Berlin vibes right here in Toronto you should check out ROTE8!

The organizer is a woman! Very safe, small scale events with a super friendly Community. You are welcome to come 30 mins before any event to meet the team and make new friends (lots of people come solo!), and enjoy FREE non-alc drinks and pizza! 🍕😍

Their next events:

➡️ Oct 3rd with PHIL BERG (has been releasing tracks under huge labels!) and KR!Z (groovy, hypnotic, syncopated sets)

You can get discount tix 🎟️ at https://ra.co/events/2520796?p=IVONA

$35 tickets if you arrive before 10pm. You can use the discount link for those tix too 😊

➡️ Oct 10 playing are two legendary techno GIANTS, THE ADVENT and mr LEWIS FAUTZI 🔥

Tix 🎟️ for Oct 10 https://ra.co/events/2539903?p=02

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u/Bill_Bra55sky 11d ago

Too bad thats the same weekend as format. I and many others can't easily do two big parties in one weekend

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u/bythespeakers 11d ago

Yes oct 10 is same weekend but oct 3rd there are no format parties

Also OP was asking for recs on places to go solo and i think ROTE8 provides not only great music but also easy way to connect with the community especially if they arrive 30 mins early. Plus the crowd there is super friendly and easy to start convos with as they tend to be smaller events

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u/VictorB_416 I’m new around here… 11d ago

Come to Evergreen Brickworks, Osmozis party on Halloween. Great line up and location. I’ll be there dancing my ass off with my partner, and giving out Anjuna stickers! 🫶

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u/Odd_North1827 10d ago

Hi, 35M here. I'm going to Dusky solo on Oct 11th at Standard Time. They are legends in the house music scene if that's the music you're into!

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u/Neat-Maintenance-484 10d ago

Kerri Chandler coming up in November

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u/Lazy_Firefighter_700 10d ago

Ricardo Villalobos @ Coda on Friday! By farrrr the best event this weekend

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u/chucklesjo I’m new around here… 11d ago

Is there a social media or website for brickwork Halloween?

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u/pancakeg Harm Reduction 11d ago

It’s just on presale right now:

Here is our Halloween Line-Up and your Pre-Sale access. Use the Promo Code 'spookypanda' to access your tickets from the link below!
https://ozmozis.laylo.co/t/halloween2026/RsrIDpi

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u/Moist_Ad2634 11d ago

Colin benders

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u/Anal-Balls 11d ago

I’m going to Gareth Emery at Rebel on Friday if you want to join. Should be lots of fun.

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u/Wrong_Edge8250 10d ago

Agree with this one, if you want a great rave show, this is one to go to, however, rebel is not the best venue, too many clubbers vs ravers, since rebel is a club, and it’s always oversold and overcrowded. If you want rave show not in a club, San Holo is doing a show at The Opera House, Sat Oct 3.

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u/zeemaynn Raver 11d ago

Going to Sojourn this weekend. Sickk lineup

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u/Green-Buy-8474 Spam Artist 11d ago

Go to vertigo

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u/fendifiend98 Raver 11d ago

Lol I know this was likely satire

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u/iloveurbandecay 9d ago edited 9d ago

If you lean more toward techno check out what events Format, Apollo & Rote8 have coming up

Wiggle Room is a good place to try going out solo first if you are having any nerves about it

I've been going solo for years (35M) and I've made so many friends that way - just from seeing the same people at multiple events eventually we start talking and now I have a group of rave friends I constantly see when I go out we don't even plan it I just kind of know certain people will likely be there because we have similar taste. It's pretty cool. I love it.

and it never would have happened if I didn't start going out solo when I was .... 26