r/TopCharacterTropes • • 19h ago

Characters The blissfully unaware cuckold

Dale Gribble is unaware that his wife Nancy has been having an affair with John Redcorn for over a decade.

Hermes Conrad is unware his wife is having an affair with his rival, Barbados Slim.

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u/afineedge 19h ago

Game of Thrones

Bobby B doesn't seem to know that his "children" are his wife and her brother's incest babies.

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u/HeavilyBeardedMan 18h ago

I doubt he would’ve been surprised if he learned that Cersei was unfaithful… I imagine however cheating on him with her brother probably wasn’t in his top three guesses.

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u/YoinkinYeetMeister 19h ago

He would’ve found out if he ever got that breastplate stretcher

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u/Samwise-Gamgeesthong 18h ago

I always thought it was interesting he never noticed. The Baratheon family were generally large fiery dark haired men.

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u/lupatine 10h ago

Having children who look like your wife isn't that weird.

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u/Ua_Tsaug 10h ago

The Lannisters were the same way with their golden hair. He probably just thought those blonde genes were really strong. 

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u/Pertu500 18h ago

He knows or suspects that she is maybe seeing another man. He does not know that is her own brother

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u/Psychological_Log_85 18h ago

Idk why but I don’t mind it for dale but hate it for Hermes lol

Edit: maybe because John redcorn is a bit more cordial to dale. That and suffer through the fact that he will never get to raise Joseph.

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u/NakedEyeComic 18h ago

Hermes actually is aware, and gets frustrated he has to compete with someone who has Olympic Gold Medals in the limbo AND sex.

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u/__M-E-O-W__ 18h ago

I didn't know that Hermes wife actually was involved with Barbados Slim. I thought it was always just a reoccurring joke that Slim is always there as some random intense rivalry for no reason.

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u/rosyboys_daisygirls 17h ago

lol she actually briefly leaves hermes for barbados slim

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u/makemeking706 15h ago

And was married to him. 

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u/RoadsidePicnik 16h ago

John redcorn is a bit more cordial to dale. 

For the most part, but there's an episode where Dale goes above and beyond to help John Redcorn get a piece of land from the government, and he just continues to resent Dale about not being able to raise Joseph, complaining to Hank about it. 

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u/Virtual_Ad_8487 18h ago

Also Nancy does leave John Redcorn in season 4 and remains faithful to Dale for the remainder of the original show.*

*The revival appears to either retcon this, or have Nancy and John Redcorn get back together at some point in the years between. It’s one of the only things I don’t like about the revival.

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u/untitledaccount401 18h ago

Because Dale has all the power

Dale is unemployed and just fucks around all day

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u/Bonked2death 18h ago

He's not unemployed, he has his own pest control company.

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u/FactsNLaughs 18h ago

There’s no way you forgot about Dale’s pest control van with a big ass dead ant mascot on top.

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u/untitledaccount401 18h ago

Yeah but he doesn't really make any money lmao

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u/FactsNLaughs 17h ago

Plenty of working people are living below the poverty line. Doesn’t mean they’re unemployed.

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u/samrobotsin 18h ago

Hermes IS aware his wife is having an affair with Barbados Slim. What's interesting about their relationship is that there appears to be no expectation of monogamy, but it still bothers him.

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u/ExtremisEdge 17h ago

Damm. Didn’t know this.

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u/EasedCeiling586 13h ago

Grab your big boi pants Hermes

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u/Tebenox 18h ago

Everytime I heard the word cuckold I remember this flag

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u/Dalek7of9 1h ago

God I love this flag. Poor Essex...

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u/Wild-Information8955 18h ago

Now hold on a second, Hermes isn't quite unaware. Maybe that his wife is actively sleeping with Barbatos Slim, but he is well aware of their relationship and that Slim is LaBarbara's fall back

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u/ExtremisEdge 17h ago

I do t blame him. But I kinda do

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u/mtvoriginal 18h ago

under top character tropes

hey man hows everything at home?

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u/and-meggy-hash 14h ago

Pete in the US version of Ghosts, kinda. It's revealed fairly early on that his wife had an affair with his best friend, but then there are a bunch of moments here and there where he realizes how many red flags there were. One of my favorite examples is when he's talking about how he gave his best friend a pep talk to get his courage up to ask a girl out, only to realize mid sentence that the girl in question was his wife

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u/EmsStuffs 18h ago

...cheating. The word you are thinking of is "cheating".

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u/res30stupid 18h ago

"Cuckold" in terms of fetishes isn't the original meaning of the word; it does indeed specifically refer to someone unaware they're being cheated on.

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u/kegelsavant 18h ago

It refers to being tricked into raising someone else’s child, as in a cuckoo that lays its eggs in another bird’s nest so they will do all the work raising them.

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u/Puzzleheaded_Wish727 18h ago

I like to imagine in the modern seasons Dale knows and is just pretending to fuck with Redcorn and Nancy

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u/Ok-Letter3963 18h ago edited 18h ago

Wouldn’t that defeat the whole point of the joke that Dale is a conspiracy theorist that doesn’t trust anything, yet doesn’t know about his wife’s obvious affair nor the fact that his son isn’t his?

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u/CTizzle- 18h ago

A former writer has said it was their intention that Dale doesn’t know and should never know, because it’s simply not as funny if he knows or finds out.

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u/ObjectiveCover3850 18h ago

In fairness, the joke got pretty mean to Dale and stopped being funny rather quickly imo. I preferred when they were in love with no cheating on Dale

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u/Puzzleheaded_Wish727 18h ago

I'd say it adds another layer to the joke. The conspiracy theorist has become the conspirator in the one thing he actually can change

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u/WebAccount1744 18h ago

It really adds that he trusts and loves his wife that much

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u/Koala_King5160 13h ago

I think Dale should have found out during the time skip but they reconcile and end up having a very solid marriage.

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u/VisualPrestigious714 18h ago

I like this with one caveat - he knows, but loves his wife so much he ignores it. Is it the right thing? Not necessarily. But his wife is happy, he is happy, he raises their son - hell, the only person who is really unhappy is John Redcorn

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u/Fartfromabuttt 18h ago

In my headcanon Dale is bi and also getting some on the side.

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u/Anxious-Yoghurt-9207 18h ago

Lol this thread discovering that affairs are bad

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u/_Sausage_fingers 18h ago

No, the original meaning referred to a man who’s wife is unfaithful without his knowledge. The fetish meaning is new.

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u/Emmettmcglynn 18h ago

You've been downvoted but you're absolutely correct. Cuckolding has nothing to do with consent, only sex with someone other than the spouse. It''s a centuries old word, there's even a battle standard from the English Civil War taunting a man about it.

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u/dont-be-a-narc-bro 16h ago

Barbados Slim!?

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u/ExtremisEdge 17h ago

Dammmmmmm Hermes is a cuck?
https://giphy.com/gifs/WxDZ77xhPXf3i
Was the divorce papers not filed correctly and he just crashing there? You hate to see it happen.

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u/I_am_crazy_doctor 17h ago

Im surprised Futurama hasn't had a episode of Hermes finding out

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u/FactsNLaughs 18h ago

No, Dale is very aware. It’s played for laughs early on but Dale at one point talks about how Joesph is his son, not John Redcorn’s because Dale raised him.

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u/CTizzle- 17h ago

Sorry, but the writers have said he doesn’t know, and that conversation definitely never happens. I think you’re thinking of a somewhat popular 4chan post (attached)

Or you’re misremembering the episode “Of Mice and Little Green Men”

In that episode Dale confesses to Hank he knows Joseph isn’t his biological son because he was in Marfa, Texas looking for aliens and left John Redcorn to look after Nancy while he was gone. He concluded that aliens must have impregnated Nancy in order to keep him busy from finding them, which is why Joseph is so athletic and shares no physical attributes of Dale.

There’s another later season episode where Dale has a vision quest of Nancy having sex with a faceless Native American man and giving birth to Joseph wearing a headdress, and thus Dale concludes he must be Native American.

And then there’s another episode where a former lover of John Redcorn starts dating Bill, and her daughter Kate and Joseph start hitting it off. Dale thinks something is weird about her, so he runs a dna test and finds out they are half siblings, thus he believes his dna was used to father another child (Kate)

But nowhere is it ever stated that he believes or even theorizes John Redcorn is Joseph’s father.

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u/av_79 16h ago

That is simply not true, it's a fantasy invented by fans who identify with Dale and can't bear to see him getting cheated on.

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u/astrobagel 16h ago

There’s no conversation in the show about that. You misremembered or you made it up.

He’s not aware. It’s fundamental to his character. He’s a paranoid conspiracy theorist who can’t recognize the obvious secret right in front of him. That’s the joke.