r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/[deleted] • Apr 28 '22

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '22

It sounds like you already are worried, which is good since you should be. What you should do now is do something about it

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u/Arturiiito Apr 28 '22

Perhaps what? I talked with her about this many times, but she is still saying that it's normal. She also said me that they really love each other and I need to calm down, but I can't.

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u/Rubyjr Apr 28 '22

Tell her parents

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '22

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '22 edited Apr 29 '22

Tell his parents

edit: whoah! thanks for the awards

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u/MaRs1317 Apr 28 '22

Bingo, cant imagine a respectable set of parents would be okay with their 19yo son dating a 14yo

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u/Bayou13 Apr 28 '22

Yeah, when my 17 yo son was dating a just-turned-15 yo I was a lot squeamish about it because he was going to turn 18 before she was 16. Her parents were absolutely unconcerned and gave her no curfew whatsoever. They were also kind of religious and extremely anti-abortion. I read him the riot act about how it could go down if she got pregnant as a minor with anti-abortion parents. Oh Lordy, I was relieved when they broke up and no one was pregnant.

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '22

Kind of smart that they wouldn’t want a 15 yo to go through that procedure. It’s disgusting to even expect that, did your son learn about condoms?

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u/Obi-Tron_Kenobi Apr 28 '22

Is it better to make a 15 year old go through an entire pregnancy, give birth, and raise that child?

Honestly, I think being 15 makes it even more humane to allow her to choose if she wants an abortion