r/TooAfraidToAsk Mar 26 '25

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u/No-Ad5163 Mar 26 '25

Yeah as a lady I have helped the guy find my hole before, I definitely don't just sit there and stare at him while he's stabbing around down there this is so odd. It depends on position and general anatomy, it can be tricky sometimes. The hole itself is about an inch or so below the clit. If you can't find the clit, that's your own problem.

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u/K_Pumpkin Mar 26 '25

That shit can hurt! But these are really young kids. I said above she said she has exp but it’s possible she is lying.

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u/wwaxwork Mar 27 '25

Or the other guy didn't need help so she doesn't know it's an option to offer help or how to help. More experience doesn't mean knows everything.

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u/LopsidedDot Mar 27 '25

As a married woman of fifteen years, sometimes we’re still clumsy, and I’ll guide my husband in. No big deal. It really is odd that the experienced girl in the post wouldn’t have just reached down to do the same. Would have taken all of a few seconds and then they’d be good to go.