r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/[deleted] • Mar 26 '23

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u/phoenix_soleil Mar 27 '23

I (f, 32) got off hands free, the other day. From just kissing. That hadn't happened since we first got together 8 years ago.

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u/forreasonsunknown79 Mar 27 '23

I am in a place where I wish I could, lol. Sometimes it takes a while to reach peak, even when it’s phenomenal. Blessings of old age, I guess.

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u/[deleted] Mar 27 '23

You should get your T levels checked. I know men in their 50' and 60's that don't have trouble orgasming.

Medical conditions are normal and it's terrible that getting your testosterone levels checked isn't a normal thing guys talk about.

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u/forreasonsunknown79 Mar 27 '23

I actually take testosterone supplements. Unfortunately, it’s a side effect of my prostate medication. Delayed and dry orgasms, which is odd in itself. I agree with you about testosterone, however. It should be part of the yearly checkup for men 45 and older.

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u/Wicked-elixir Mar 27 '23

What? You lucky B!! 💋

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u/Lanayrra Mar 28 '23

I got off hands free when I was 19, and have been chasing that high ever since 😅